How does your KH react to you being unlocked?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Headtrip, Sep 19, 2021.

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Counter poll: is your partner/KH upset when you are unlockedlocked

  1. No change in their behaviour

    9 vote(s)
    18.0%
  2. Yes, I notice they are on guard more

    11 vote(s)
    22.0%
  3. Yes, they stop being as dominant

    15 vote(s)
    30.0%
  4. Yes, they get very irritable or upset

    6 vote(s)
    12.0%
  5. I will let you know if/when that ever happens.

    6 vote(s)
    12.0%
  6. Other

    5 vote(s)
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  1. Headtrip
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    @borbulls1961 poll on how we change when unlocked got me thinking about how my KH (wife) gets extremely irritable if I have to be unlocked for any reason. Band I am talking even before I have a chance to be a "douch-bag". Its like the real reaction when taking candy from a baby!

    If you spend a lot of time locked, how was your KH last time it had to come off?
     
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    I voted "Yes, they stop being as dominant" but that's just relative. Xena is already very dominant. Having me locked just makes her more unrepentantly dominant.
     
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    I don't know she never unlocks me.
     
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    Goddess who flick or slap her property and ask what it's for. She is definately not interested in an ulockled spotty, other that to cause it pain...
     
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    I dunno why they would be that upset, wouldn’t they be the one unlocking you?
     
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    If I'm unlocked it's for a reason or a special occasion. Longest I've been unlocked at a time now probably 30 minutes.
     
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    My wife doesn’t really change any behavior. She’ll sometimes let me stay cage free for a week or two, in that time I am still expected to stay submissive and sex is still on her terms, but I’m usually allowed to have piv and orgasm. She usually gets sick of me being free sometime in that 7-14 day period though. And I think those free times will be less often and shorter from here on out
     
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    There is no change, she is always easy going in everyday things in life and dominant in our sex and play life. It doesn’t matter if caged or not, she sets the tone.
     
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    She oblidges my chastity desires and keeps me locked longer and longer as we have played over the years. Her interest in keeping me locked waxes and wanes but if I don't deliberately lock myself back up when unlocked, she just waits me out. I can't stay unlocked.

    Her minimal dominance is a direct and inverted reflection of my submissiveness.
     
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    I am normally only unlocked for hygiene reasons, or for play sessions that include cbt, but madam is always pleased to get me locked back up as soon as ether are finished!
     
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    She keeps me locked, either cage or cuffs, virtually all of the time, but occassionally has no choice such as a MRI or hospital stay. When that happens she feels like she has lost control of her property and gets very edgy.

    It is interesting how diverse the responses are here. No one flavor for sure.
     
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    I'm noticing mine is quicker to want it back on when She has removed it for any reason, which really plays in for me and my desires. Every now and again She allows me to take it off for a night to sleep, but that's not often. I am locked and at Her discretion all of the time, but we worked to get it to that point. I do think having it place emphasizes Her position.
     
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    The cage is only removed for a few weeks each year, usually due to skin soreness. She expects me not to touch myself sexually when it's off and I don't, which pleases her. But just before it goes back on she likes to have me edge until I'm very close to orgasm, then cool down for a few minutes, so I'm maximally horny as the cage slides back on, typically to stay on for a month or two.
     
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    She removes it for fun, usually for a day or two. She feels it is healthy to let things stretch out a bit. Then, it is back in the cage.
     
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    Considering the only times I am unlocked is when she uses the key and it's because she wants to, she normally has a reason for it.... Well, it's normally when she's in a gleeful mood and I'm (my bits) getting some sort of attention that she's come up with... Lets say her typical gleeful mood that comes from (just) denying either stays because that's part of the unlocking, or shifts to an equally gleeful mood from providing pleasure. Since she owns the clock and key, it would be silly if she didn't also own the pleasure/denial part, and if she didn't enjoy being a part of both of those, why would she care about the clock and key, hence why would she be interested in being a keyholder in the first place.... SO, mood does change, but just for the reason behind it, not going from one mood to another....
     
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