How does it typically start?

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    my wife wants to give another guy a handjob while I’m locked. She says it’s my responsibility to make it happen and the goal is to decide if we want to go the next step. She’s made it clear that she hopes I get used to it. I’m sure she may have a desire to full on cuckold me.
    I’m just curious how other husband/wife couples started and progressed with cuckolding. Am I over thinking her intentions?
     
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    I agree, she wants to fully cuckold you but what is the problem with that? Consider yourself a lucky guy.
     
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    If you indeed want to be cucked you are certainly a lucky man. When it's the wife's idea it's a wonderful life. That said, wifey is unlikely to be satisfied with a handjob if the guy is well-hung. Would you be comfortable having her plowed deeply? And perhaps watching?
     
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    From what She has requested of you, I would say She is very interested in making you a cuck. Are you a happy and willing participant ??
     
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    Sure I would be.
     
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    That is a wonderful answer. Your wife will love you even more and you will enjoy a deep satisfaction
     
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    When my wife and I started dating I introduced her to swinging as I had been involved in the lifestyle for several years. We typically played with other couples and then we opened up to singles, both male and female. Eventually we ended up playing with males. From there it progressed to a Cuck/Hotwife situation.
     
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    Sounds like a lovely progression. Nicely played.
     
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    I’m not sure. It’s interesting for sure but she is pushing me to try it. She had a pretty strong sex drive and I don’t so she had been denying me and making me watch her orgasm for a long time. She is looking forward to frustrating me more and more. She loves the control.
     
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    At this point I’m willing to try. She wants it and I am apprehensive but have agreed to try.
     
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    If she wants it she will make sure that it happens. Hope you enjoy the ride
     
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    I will be interested to see how this evolves. I hope that it moves forward as you both wish. I imagine it would be hard to find just the right fellow though.
     
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    How does anyone get to the conversation point involving this topic? Do you wait for her to suggest it? Have any guys asked their wives if they fancy it?
     
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    A great thing about the lifestyle is that there's no right, wrong or one way to do anything. It's about how it works for the people involved. We know couples who met through fetish/alt kind of websites, who started swinging and evolved and who hit the empty nest stage and decided to try something new. In our case it started as a bedroom fantasy that played well with my submissive personality (the "real man" talk.)

    Depending on where you live it may not be easy to find others who share and have lived the interest. We were fortunate that we met a couple long time in the lifestyle who helped a lot along the way. Just our opinion but being able to talk with others who have been there will help you be more aware of not just the rush and "ups" of the lifestyle but the bumps along the way. And believe me early on it's not all fun and games. Reality is not as neat, clean and easy as real life.

    So repeating what i say too often is communicate open and honestly all the time, even when those conversations may get awkward. Talking before, after (and eventually in our case during too) is important.
     
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    I’m in Southern California. You would think finding others in the lifestyle would be easy but not really. And when you have kids it’s harder to meet too.
     
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    I can just about guarantee you, there are people who live closer than you think who have the same or similar interests as you. You just haven't discovered them yet. Takes time, effort, and patience. Raising kids will temporarily slow the pace, but it is really temporary.
     
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    A handjob. Too simple. That is as simple as your wife and you heading out to the same bar separately and you watch from a far as your wife gets flirted with while she sits at the bar. Of course she would be dressed in something sexy, "fuck me" attire. Once she has a suitor they can simple move to the back corner of the bar, your car, or even the restroom. She can jack him off and that is that. You need to know though that a handjob can easily lead to a blowjob and when your hot wife's panties start to get wet then maybe she will need to be fingered or fucked.

    Once you have become a cuckold and if you and your better half decide it is a lifestyle you want to live then you two can search for a real bull. You will be cleaning up her used pussy before you know it.
     
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    I've suggested it a few times to my wife n she says no. I've been locked 11 1/2 months. She uses toys but I really wish she'd find a sex partner cos she's committed to keeping me locked cir a really long time
     
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    Lucky You!!!
     
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    Would love it if Mistress Wolf took a long term Boyfriend/lover... Would so enjoy seeing Her get dressed up to go out, then getting home disheveled and well satisfied, or even entertaining him at home, in our bed as I stay in the other room only able to hear....
     
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    Has she ever mentioned that? If not, will you suggest it to her?
     
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    Actually, she has talked a lot about finding a Poly partner for her/us, adn if that goes well MAYBE letting me find a partner as well...
    Not sure I'd want another relationship, but definitely want her happy and well sexed
     
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    Well, if she has been talking about it I'm sure that she will make it happen. As you say, her needs always come first.
     
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    Reading this thread makes me think what's going through the lucky guy's mind (not you, cuck). There's this lovely woman offering to give him a handjob while Her hubby watches and licks up the cum. I wonder if She would make that offer to a close friend or more of a stranger. If a friend, I would guess that She hopes for a "deeper" relationship with him.

    In any event, it sounds very kinky and fun! Enjoy!
     
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