How does it feel for you?

I have found that the body seems to learn that to avoid a painful erection....it does not get as hard as often. For me, it makes me feel more feminine as I can feel "nothing down there" unless my clitty is trying to get hard.

 

My body has not learned this yet!
I’m up several times in the course of the night

 

I am currently kept locked in HER HTv3 Small (Purple with my avatar on the top to 'brand' me) and I get the same thing. This device fits very snugly and allows no room for expansion inside and there is very little pressure on my balls. Attempted erections back up to the penile root.

I introduced chastity for her to help me stop jerking off to porn. The fact that I have learned that I love serving her and, more importantly, she loves having me serve her, is a wonderful bonus!

 

WOW...Me too...

 

i find it as intense now as it was when my Mistress Wife owned me. How does it feel? Physically imprisoned, emotionally free. Chastity can do that to a submissive.

 

It's not really a "bonus," it's sort of the whole point, an inevitable result. When you stop being an active masturbator you allow yourself to see your wife as a whole person again and begin to court her and worship her again, you become the man she loves again.

 

i have a short, tight fitting cage with a 40mm ring. When i get excited, things get very...compacted. It's also one hell of a psychological trip, as well, knowing that i can't get out unless She wants me out, and i'll just be frustrated and uncomfortable until She thinks i deserve any kind of relief. Sure, it's a hypothetical She at the moment, but even self-locking has a serious mental component.

 

I love the feeling of being restrained in a cage, unable to get an erection. My penis will strain against the cage with the slightest erotic thought. I tend to drip copious pre-cum, especially with a urethral insert (see my photos), so much so that I often have a wet spot on my pants, which I have to hide from people. When wearing a cage I often have the need to unzip my fly and expose it so that people can see what a pathetic sissy I am. To run errands in the evening (like getting gas, getting cash from the ATM), I have often worn a miniskirt, sheer petticoat, or sometimes nothing at all to expose my cage in public so I can feel as humiliated as possible. I love wearing something in public that exposes me, which people are not expecting to see, and mostly don't even notice!

 

It feels just like this:
Imagine being starving hungry and a plate of food is just behind a heavy, nearly immovable door and the only way to push the door open is by using your nose.

 

It feels like an unyielding grip. As others have stated, you certainly can get erect. Of course, because of the physical restriction, you typically won't reach a full erection, but the erectile tissue will fill with blood and as a result, penis will expand.

Now, I find it pretty hot and erotic. I like to liken it to her having a hand down my pants and firmly holding my erection. It provides a much more intense sensation than simply getting erect. But it's monotonous. When you masturbate or have sex, the sensations are varied. Here you get that initial intensity as the erection presses against the restriction, but then it tends to plateau and you get to what would most probably describe as frustration, because you want that variety, you want the pressure to reduce and build over and over again (at a decent frequency). Twitching can give you some of that, so can pumping the device, pressing into it and releasing.

So I actually like wearing a device when sex isn't on the table. Like, you know, walking by the lake, in a restaurant, just tying her up and so on. And with a proper belt, I don't have to worry about an erection showing. Of course, when a minx teases me at a dinner table, the risk of having a tent in my pants when I get up is replaced by a risk of having a wet patch on my pants. Being playful, ladies seem to be curious, they want to see it, they seem to provoke more if they believe you're lock up etc. All around fun times.

Than again, I'm not "normal." When I got my first device, I was planning to do the smart thing and start slow. But I found out it went very well. So instead of an hour or two, I went for about ten. And after that, it was still so great I decided to try sleeping in it. And I could just fine. In a device that was too small for me (it was CB3000) with the smallest spacer and I don't think it was the biggest ring (want to say middle, not sure). This experience isn't normal. Sure, I got erections just like other guys. And they pulled my balls to before unseen distances (I have a tight sack). It just didn't bother me. Slept like a baby. And I'm not a masochist. The downside is that while I don't mind the restricted erection, I enjoy it quite a bit actually, that pressure does quite a bit of damage. It was like a day of play and a week of healing. This is, of course, a question of poor design of that device, at least for my anatomy.

So far I have focused on the physical aspect. As for the emotional, it does, shall we say, amplify my feelings, when a woman has the keys. A lot of emotional energy is produced. Which can be great. It can fuel many activities. But it can, of course, turn ugly as well. The physical part is pretty simple. The emotional can be very complicated. In a nutshell, I would say it's all about intensity for me. Physical or emotional.

 

I forgot to add that I also seem to tolerate sexual frustration better than most. I never complained after leaving a girl's place in early morning hours all horny without "getting any." I was just high and slowly drifting back down, enjoying the cool air and feeling alive. Sure, I believe a tease deserves a spanking. But for me, not having "sex" wasn't a failure. We had great fun and I have a lot of fond memories of just fooling around and getting each other hot and bothered. That frustration I spoke of might be bad, too much, for some people, I just feel the energy. The journey is the goal.

 

The feeling of restraint in a smaller than normally worn cage is so so erotic mmm

 

When using the cage in my avatar with the large enclosed head, getting teased becomes hugely frustrating, I really desire some sensations on my head, some feeling of being touched there, but the enclosed end cap completely isolates the head from any feeling other than the pressure of the growth allowed inside the cage. The whole device has been closed up by bending the rings closer together so there is little room for growth or feeling between the rings on the shaft, it is quite an isolating design. It gets to the point when I crave some touch on the head especially, or anywhere along the shaft and the fact I can not get any stimulation is just the most frustrating thing ever. My KH really likes getting me into this state and enjoys making me into a quivering wreck without any way of quenching my need.

 

Hello
I start with the cage, and I have already done a session of 4 days
And I am currently in an 8 day session. (self locked)
I have a BON 4 M small (metal) that is already a little tight when I'm flaccid
The felling is extremely erotic, I feel it constantly is impossible to forget. It reminds me of my condition as a beta male and it's delicious.
The night is more difficult because the nocturnal erections are painful especially around the ring which becomes very tight and it pinches my scrotum, but I like it.
I think to increase the duration of the sessions because the rule that I imposed myself is that the following session must always be longer than the previous one.
(16 days, 1 month, 2 months 3 months etc.)
Just thinking about that, it stimulates me and inevitably it becomes painful.
The more it hurts, the stronger the erection and the more it hurts, until it goes down again.
It's a fantastic spiral.
That's my beginner's feling
Respect

 

I currently have a small cage which is full whilst I am limp so there simply isn't room in there to allow an erection, some swelling yes, but that only makes the cage even tighter, but not uncomfortably so.
As others have said there is the throbbing, and dribbling, and I have learnt to enjoy this, I'd go so far as to say it is more enjoyable than orgasm, as in it is possible to enjoy these sensations far longer than the few seconds of an orgasm.
Orgasms are cruel, i crave them, I'd do literally anything to have one, yet afterwards it makes me feel so disappointed, wishing I'd just stayed locked in my cage :-/

 

The basic irony of a chaste man. Let your keyholder know how you feel, she'll help you avoid cruelty and disappointment.

 

I echo much of what was already posted here. I use the large urethral probe - about 4 " - and it most certainly keeps me from slipping out and pleasuring myself. There is simply no escape for me anymore.
Occasionally - at least once a day - a mild panic attack sets in when I feel I must get out of this thing and cum. That is extremely frustrating for me, but I can always calm myself down after a bit.

 

Could you all give details of which cage you using presently.
To yndeunders how to feels in each cage

 

I am currently in the short(er) cage, with the loner probe. Works great for me.

 

If only I had a keyholder :-(

 

That is a great description

 

Feels like bondage. Precisely how it feels depends on the degree of the attempted erection. A minor or moderate erection attempt fills the cage and creates a little extra pressure, which can actually feel pleasant, but certainly restrictive and a reminder of my situation. An attempt at a raging hard-on creates so much pressure inside the cage that it hurts.

 

What effect do the spikes have?

Does the eurethra tube make pulling out the back to escape impossible??

 

You told her what I would have

 

I love seeing my cock swell in the cage. The pressure of it growing, straining, throbbing telling you it wants out. But Mistress see the swollen cock in the cage. Mistress smile asks if you'd like to be released. Yes Mistress please. Mistress smiles and whispers in your ear No. Mistress walks away leaving your cock caged and swollen. And secretly you wish and want more. Mistress is only to happy to accommodate you.