How do you define sex now?

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    #26 HusbandInTraining, Dec 7, 2022
    PIV is rare, and when it happens, I don't last anywhere near long enough to call it sex. That being said, before chastity, PIV was even rarer. We had no sex life at all. Now Goddess has orgasms when she wants, usually with the wand, and I have mine also when she wants, usually by her hand. I don't recall us ever in our marriage using the word sex, but I find that recently the word intimacy keeps finding its way into our conversations.
     
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    #27 Lisa4343, Dec 7, 2022
    Sex is whatever turns you on. There are as many definitions as there are humans.
     
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    #28 true42, Dec 7, 2022
    Good for you!
     
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    #29 Dougie13, Dec 11, 2022
    Sex is me folding her laundry.
    Wild sex is me rubbing an exfoliating lotion on her butt.
    Crazy sex is her pushing my testicles into my abdomen while I masturbate.

    She also has a lot of intercourse and oral with the man in her life. That qualifies also.
     
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    #30 stallionBoi, Dec 11, 2022
    "Sex" has taken on a completely different definition.

    Hand-washing her lingerie as she falls asleep after having a satisfactory number of orally-induced orgasms... That definitely keeps me in sex mode.
     
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    #31 Disciplined Boyfriend, Dec 11, 2022
    Its not changed. Sex is the same, boy meets girl, girl meets boy, they are attracted and want to mate or play with each others sexual organs. Or the alternative, boy gets horny and needs release so either wanks off to explicit content on the web or seeks out the services of a professional. Depending on your own orientation you may want to use "boy & boy" or "girl and girl".

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    #32 SETI, Dec 11, 2022
    The definition is the same it has always been, I just don’t get it so much anymore.
     
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    #33 Caged for life, Dec 11, 2022
    My sex life has never been better, since I gave her the keys.
    We still have PIV as well as her teasing me and Denying me. But my sensitivity is 10X's better than it used to be.
     
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    #34 Fisherman, Dec 11, 2022
    Sex for my wife and I is mostly her spreading her legs and telling me one of the following ...

    • Get busy
    • Do your job
    • I need an orgasm
    Unlocks for me are seldom and she has me on multiple month denial periods.
     
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    #35 Rtarvey, Dec 12, 2022
    Sex for us is balls being smashed, nipples being twisted, ass being flogged face being sat on, all oral, strap on vikskin when I can't stand anymore, if I can get away. Hitachi and strap on nipple clamps pulled harder and harder then finally she is done. If In bondage all bets off, finished when she feels ready then give her an orgasm. Wouldn't have it any other way.
     
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    #36 SlaveBoy73, Dec 13, 2022
    Sex now is me begging for humiliation and Master obliging me.
     
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    #37 littleguy3, Oct 10, 2023
    This basically has become our definition of sex as well. Occasionally but very rarely, it includes an erection and ejaculation mess with the sounds of an animal expiring! :oops:
     
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    #38 LesterBallard, Oct 10, 2023
    Historically
     
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    #39 bondinchas, Oct 14, 2023
    How do we define sex now?

    Sex for her is mostly below the waist.
    Sex for me is mostly above the chin.
     
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    #40 zotonkoton, Oct 16, 2023
    Personally I dont care that much.

    I know when I was younger... I sometimes totally knew a girl was not into anything femdom related, or just random encounters in the club... I would just wanted to get oral, or piv... for a sense of achievement, for my ego. So i could tell I have slept (another word for defining :D ) with - lets say 5-10 girls. And i would count only piv-s .... but I had sometimes some activities in a mild femdom way that didnt result in piv that were more meaningful to me and I still remember them, but i didnt count it in my book...
    But even if I said I had sex with that girl, and somehow the information came to her - i am sure she would deny it...

    But now I dont care... I like more this kind of sexual plays. I like piv too. And i like it combined. But I always look for first primarily. Piv/fucking/what most people probably call sex - if its only option - i have some enjoyment, body sensation, but I do it for ego, validation, fun, its definitely nice - i will never refuse it with a woman i find attractive. But the thing I most desire, that I can give my best , etc. etc. is related with femdom, and chastitiy(maybe even more precisely the denial aspect) and having these long and never ending plays :D

    I understand the humiliation aspect you guys enjoy. There is something to it.

    From all the posts i agree most with MsPamela's.


    But I admit it's hot.... like , darling , you seem in the mood, do you want to go in room to have sex so i can make you cum while I m in chastity? :) She with belittling and obviously "Dont be ridiculous" face expression: hahahahaha ... what?! :D you didnt have sex in years hahhaha.... only I have sex, you are just there to witness hahaha
     
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