How do i deal with it?

And if he is blindfolded and only you can see, is he likely to guess right

 

oh, so the forum has now turned into relationship advice stuff? uhm

 

You hadn’t noticed before?

 

I had. and it's also one of the reasons why I don't hover over here as I used to...

 

I don't think this is fair to the OP. For many of us chastity is part of an FLR and is a real piece of changing and improving our relationships, not just a kink or sex game. It's entirely appropriate that a keyholder would ask for such advice, just as many men ask for, for example, ring-size advice.

 

I don't agree. Although the majority is part of an FLR here, there are people that would rather see certain posts belonging to other places. A kh can ask for advice but this sounds like a wife asking advice and I don't see this as a counselling place for couples. We are talking about cables here, not about a ring size.

 

@Rectrix : if this doesn't bother others, it's very much ok for me.
Inevitably, the result is, as a kh, I've stopped participating to the forum and I'm just pointing out why. and besides, I'm not the only one: a lot of peeps have stopped checking in for exactly the same reason.

 

this seems a peculiar topic to pick up on. If you don't want to read advice stuff, don't. The title of the thread is "How do I deal with it?" That's pretty unambiguous: someone wants advice.

 

I'm not here to give advice to a key holder but as a sub I think I'd have been impressed if you'd have just started theatrically laughing too and then when he asked you why you were laughing so much you smirked and said "because you just won yourself an extra three days in chastity!"

Or if you wanted to be extra creative, put his haughty knowledge of cables to the test. Set him some impossibly difficult cable task with too short a time allowance and when he fails you can tease him playfully and choose a forfeit for him.

I'd say it's healthy for men to lose to women regularly, keeps the latent ego in check

 

Never mentioned "leaving the site", I said instead "checking in less" - for different reasons most likely and I'm only aware of what I'm told - which is in fact what I reported.

I want to read advice stuff, it is one of the reasons why I'm here in the first place. For me, CM has always been one great source of reliable info (data and experiences) and I'm very thankful for everything I've learned here, so the more posts I notice that carry the "advice" thing, the more I'll read and fingers crossed the contents is actually more useful to me next time.

@Ms Amanda: this is nothing personal, first of all and please do not apologise, it is not needed (but appreciated nonetheless even if sarcastic). I know you're not a veteran in here and I've read other posts from you with interest in the freshness of what you say.
But just to clarify: this particular post looked to me like a regular advice request that could have been showcased anywhere else (Reddit? Cosmopolitan?) by changing the word "sub" with husband. I cannot read "D/s" in your words and to me, it is not only 'cause he's caged (if he is, I've read you guys were practicing the Honor System) that he becomes a sub: it's a state of mind first and your own words suggest he's nowhere close to it.
These are my 2 cents and there's no reason to keep on giving my unfortunate comment all this attention when the original post needs more, according to overall reactions.
@Ms Amanda: good luck nonetheless

 

This is certainly totally true for me.