How do I avoid watching porn?

After being locked and denied an orgasm for long enough you'll realise the truth of porn; Porn is an empty waste of time.

 

Do you notice the type of porn you watch different after you’ve been locked?

 

When I have I tend to look more for videos of cocks cumming when I’m locked compared to boobs and whatnot when I’m unlocked

 

Give it time.

 

Porn IMO is mental masturbation, it's taking away from my KH and from myself. I try and stay in reality. Why do I need porn when my incredibly hot KH literally has my cock in a cage?

 

Maybe just don't look at it?

 

Maybe accept that when you cant masturbate it makes you more horny and you look at more porn.

Eventually you will learnt to control it, chastity is not real great for porn control.

Whenever I am locked I spend an inordinate amount of time posting on this forum, which in all honesty is a kind of porn outlet because of the subject matter.

The only porn I'll look at is mostly femdom and so much of it is shit anyway, I can really only find interest in real people showing off their antics, not actors....ugggg and there really isn't much real stuff really.

Ironically, if i go looking for visuals, the main porn I look at is milking, aka ways of getting the fluid out without cumming. I never look at traditional sex, just not interested in it. But what interests me does vary, strangely what the people look like does not come into it, its more the realism and what they are doing, which is rarely traditional sex. Some have a series of videos which are quite old and I wonder whatever happened to the couples.

Its been a long time since I was able to masturbate, sometimes ill lay in my bed in the morning mentally masturbating thinking about my partner, usually it involves giving her pleasure while I am denied. The best porn is in your head

 

Over time the urge diminishes. You don’t need the extreme visual stimuli and sexual eroticism. You’ll enjoy the excitement you receive by just watching your other half get dressed in the morning. Taking in every moment of detail. The feel of them touching you. The thoughts of past experiences. That will be enough to have you suitably aroused.

 

Wearing a device has nothing to do with not watching porn? You either choose to watch it or you don't...

For me, watching it probably increases when locked up because I no longer have physical outlets I used to have. It adds to the frustration which also adds to the willingness to submit and behave for those rewards to come.

 

I watch porn all the time. Usually it’s relevant to my life and amateur. I can’t touch myself or cum so it just gets me worked up, and eventually I can’t really get turned on or leak anymore, and move on to something less stimulating like chastity mansion.

One of the benefits of being locked is the foreplay, porn is an easy way to keep yourself needy and desperate without anyone’s participation. I find it a nice distraction that only makes me more a puddle than before.

But then again, I don’t have access to keys, I don’t think I could watch it with options.

 

I actually like to watch porn while locked, maybe I am abusing myself lol but I love to be aroused while locked

 

I do not believe porn is the issue. Without porn, my wife and I would have never known about chastity. We found Velvet Veronica and quickly realized what turned us on.

Keep it real. Too many people get unrealistic expectations for real life. They expect their spouses to meet their new expectations or fantasies built up in their head.

It is very unhealthy to use porn to replace your spouse. I believe if it’s kept in prospective, it can be healthy too.

I also am one to watch porn while caged. I do ask for permission, she is usually okay with it because she knows I’m not taking away her orgasm that she loves to receive. I love the feeling of wanting to touch myself but can’t.

This is all my opinion, I know a lot of people feel differently. I am a very big believer in mind over matter. It is what you make of it.

 

You should watch the behind the scenes of Velvet Veronica… it shows just how unrealistic porn is.
What you see is not exactly how it is at all!

 

Are they on her site?

 

They were on pornhub.
I’m pretty sure it was velvet Veronica, there’s a few that do chastity tease videos… it’s definitely one of them.

 

Does your key holder care if you watch p***? If so, start being transparent and admit when you fail. The best solution for rewiring your brain involves replacing addictive behaviors with positive, dopamine producing behaviors which include physical intimacy. If it becomes problematic for you and your key holder, seek professional help.

 

found it! It was Veronica. She is awesome. I was going to share the link, but I guess that would not help this topic!

 

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It's so simple: I only obey my Mistress's orders.

 

Here is one.
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5e4a111e40d39#1

 

It depends on the dynamic you and your partner have got going on.

My Lady told me she wanted me to promise not to watch porn. I promised. Since then I have not watched porn. I figure if I can't keep one promise then any others are worthless

 

same here! Madam and I also watch porn together, and if I’m very very good I sometimes get to watch some she has made!

 

Wearing the cage don't stop me to watch porn. The first 15 days are intense and it slows down after. Around 30 days, my libido starts to slow down if not stimulated.

But overall, I consume a lot of porn. There is a lot of reasons for that but at the end, I'm a porncholic. It's like a drug. It's very hard to stop.

One reason I like it is that all my stress goes down for a bit. The only thing I can think is having a moment with myself and getting lost through fantasies.

It hurts my wife. I'm struggling a LOT to stop but I can't. It's a habit and I feel very ashamed because my wife don't like it. It's like, TV is boring, movies superheroes crap everywhere. When the night comes and I want to relax and get lost somewhere, there you go.

But, all in all, being in enforced chastity help me to slow down.