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    i’ve been in a femdom marriage for 17 years, sold my business 2 years ago and am now a full time house hubby: housework, cooking, grocery shopping, laundry. She works outside the home. My Christmas gift was a pink Holy Trainer. This has certainly added a new dimension to our relationship. I actually find myself more docile, more willing to do anything she asks. Any other full time house hubbies care to share? Do you find it fulfilling? I never thought I would after running my own company but I’m happier than I’ve ever been.
     
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    My congratulations is never too late for discovering what we really want, I guess she is happier too, splendid gift she gave you on Christmas!
     
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    Another full time house husband (maid) here.
     
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    And here, I'm now doing all the household chores while Mistress is either out or at work.
     
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    I worked a very stressful macho kinda of job before i became a house husband and im so much happier now! Wearing her cage and doing things to make her happy is so much more rewarding for me .
     
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    I would have no problem with the role, but I would have an issue with money. If I wasn’t making any I would be at someone’s mercy of an amount and what I was allowed to spend it on. I know that shakes people up around here, but I am not a fan of mixing love and money and prefer to keep them separate.

    I suppose I will have to wait for retirement, when I have the free time to do all that, and the financial independence that I would need to feel comfortable so I didn’t need her to give me money.
     
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    I enjoy taking a day, staying home, and doing house chores. My wife likes it too when I do that. Unfortunately we are not in a financial position to have me stay home but we would both love to have that happen. I'm not a sissy maid but I do like serving her, and doing the house hubs thing is very fulfilling for me.
     
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    Mr M Find yourself, find peace; find others, find joy.

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    My experience is that I am so dominant and directive at work, as a high level manager, that having my KH have power over me is ecstasy. To be directed and put in service attached with eroticism is the reason I submit. Chastity is a double edged sword, I want it and resist it at the exact same time. I miss having the sexual freedom, but the erotic high from D/s and sex with complete denial is 100 times more satisfying.
     
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    I may be a little unusual here, as a male key-holder who often has live-in girls (whether sissy, TV, trans- or cis) helping domestically in his house.

    I do want them to have some savings and income when they leave.

    But insist they be wholly dependent on me financially whilst in my house.

    I ascribe that to having had wives and girlfriends who've had an income, but insisted what's theirs is theirs, and that I pay the mortgage, utilities etc.

    Whilst they buy treats and luxuries for themselves, when I can't afford such things.

    I appreciate that's scary for many, but my house, my rules.
     
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    Male or female, no differences shall be made. "My house my rules" is the norm of every house where the FLR, or, being affimative of differences, MLR :D rules.
    I can't readily approve the mainstrean MLR, because there's an obvious difference in power and the eventual use of maleness strengh to enforce certain attitudes from the sub, in this case a female.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    i love being a maid in my Mistress house and before i done it i worked in bars in Spain and that was a lot harder work. i had to start at 12 lunchtime and was there till sometimes 4 in the morning and only had a few tiny breaks and tho i was paid money most of my money was rent for my little flat i had. i dont get paid money now but i do live in a nice house and all my clothes are got for me and i get Friday nite off for my own and some money to buy a drink. if i want something i ask Mistress.
     
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    You have lots of company here, @Subbyinpanties! I, too, was a tough, Alpha Male executive and now really enjoy being a house hubby in an FLR. I'm retired and Mistress works, so I do my daily shores in lingerie of Her choice each day. I love my femininity and the ways that Mistress treats, torments and humiliates me! I could not ask for more!
     
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    Me too. Almost. I do some contract work, but mostly I support my more dynamic wife.
     
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    I suppose I am a house husband. My wife and I still work but I do all the housework, cooking, cleaning and laundry at home. We have a semi-FLR, she is in charge and accepts me doing all the work but she does not tell me what to do or demand anything. And I only get to clean in maid's dress when my wife is not home.
     
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    My wife does not work. I clean house, and do all chores while she is free do attend to her desires. If I work alot of overtime she will assist.
     
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    My wife works full time, while I remain at home and attend to most of the household chores. Locked in my chastity device for several weeks at a time now, my wife has slowly becoming more and more dominant. She now expects me to serve her and is happy to order me about, ask for what she wants and what she wants me to do. Having confessed my submissive feelings and how much I enjoy being under her spell, she is quite happy flaunting her feminine sexuality, her clothes, shoes, legs etc to arouse and keep me subservient and attentive to her needs.

    There is no way that this was a natural transition for her, as she is a very kind and caring person, preconditioned to be polite and say please and thank you for everything. And while she is still basically this person, she now treats me more and more as her "maid". Of course, I am still expected to be her husband, but to all intense and purposes, in a private life together and when I am home alone, I am expected to remain obedient and subservient to her needs and pleasures. To which I can recently add, being kept locked in chasity.
     
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    I work a lot of hours and I am on the road constantly. My wife insures almost always that there is a sink full of dishes to wash and a large pile of laundry to do. My job at home feels harder than my work at times. I love the feeling of being utterly exhausted on the weekend but yet still attending to all my house duties. It certainly pleases my wife. Sometimes she calls me her Cinderella
     
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    I love being the wife! Today, dishes, vacuuming, doing some laundry, also making lunch and dinner. Of course I'm dressed, and locked, in the panties my Mistress has picked out for the day. I'll be delivering her coffee shortly when she wakes up. Life is good.
     
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    I'm a house husband, from the start 3 years ago I was mistress's servant. Things naturally shifted that direction and about 4 months ago took on a whole new meaning. I always cooked our meals but there was always a fair share with chores for the most part. I started showing my mistress that I could do more and I did. Then that set the bar and I ended doing all the chores. Grocery shopping (the big runs), all house cleaning, all laundry, all meals ( often I go home on my lunch breaks to make my wife lunch. When she finished her semester last year she gave me a break and she helped with laundry and cleaning (except bathrooms, that's always my duty). Now she's back in school and the chores are all on me again.
    I imagine in a few years I'll be here stay at home husband as long as that's what she wants. She'll be making good money when she graduates so it will be possible. We'll see what happens.
     
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    El Guapo Ladies First.

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    My first exposure to 'doing the chores' was in college.
    I met a young woman, Mistress Robin, who took me into her world & it changed my life!

    At that age, I wanted to live a life of sex and danger ... what I got was tease and denial.
    TND was so much better - its worth twice the price of admission!

    Through TND & Pavlovian Conditioning, she taught me how to live a better life:
    Ladies First.
    Servitude with a smile.
    Wearing her panties.

    Ladies First.
    For me, this is the most basic of courtesies.
    When it comes to sex - absolutely ladies first, then maybe the guy. Maybe.

    Servitude with a smile.
    It brings me an incredible amount of satisfaction to do the chores around the house so my Lady can relax and enjoy her day - I can't pamper her enough. Its a true labor of love.
    I do 95% of the cooking because I really like to work in the kitchen.
    (she cooks when she wants - and she's good at it too!)
    I do the cleaning & the shopping.
    She doesn't have to worry about the littlest things - like the toilet paper roll or the ice cube tray,
    She doesn't order me around but I enjoy waiting on her hand, foot, hair, breasts and pussy.
    I celebrate her birthday all year long.

    Wearing her panties.
    I haven't owned a pair of guy skivvies for 30 years.
    Panties are the perfect reminder of who 'owns' me.
    My wife/Mistress didn't yet know of my 'secret' when we first met - but during the first year of of our long distance relationship, on her own sent me a few pairs of hers to keep me company. Obviously she was (and still is) a natural.

    A word on Pavlovian Conditioning ...
    It makes me smile to look back on how oblivious I was to how I was being conditioned.
    But today I can recognize that it was for a higher and better good.
    I will forever be grateful for the things I learned in college.
    They have help my truer self to be realized.
     
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    El Guapo Ladies First.

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    ... d'oh! I forgot to mention I do the laundry as well
     
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    I have been a very busy sissy husband today changing the sheets to my mistresses bed, organizing and cleaning her sex toys, and cleaning the master bedroom. She will be fucking her ex-boyfriend in our marital bed tonight while I'm away with the kids this weekend. After doing the deed in our marital bed they will stay together in a hotel suite that I got them for the rest of the weekend. 20180119_095639_768x1024.jpg 20180119_101724_768x1024.jpg 20180119_103406_768x1024.jpg 20180119_103735_768x1024.jpg
     
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    Full time maid to my Mistress.....{day dreaming}....maybe someday the bliss will be mine too.
     
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