Horny idea with chasity what u think

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    Me and my wife came up with the idea i litrally pay for sex. It started at £20 as i always wanted it. She remained strict at charging. Obviously i am locked 24/7. We been doing this for 12 months now and now i pay £90. She knows its becoming harder for me to pay and its becoming more rare for me to cum. But when i do it feels like the best moment ever. Cant recommend enough. She has even put me in panties 24/7 as she thinks it will create me more horny so i constantly have a reminder that i need to save. I get what i want so why shouldnt she. Any further ideas
     
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    I cannot wrap my head around that concept.
    Marriage, the very word, means shared.
    Selling of sex is illegal in many countries too.
    How can you prostitute your wife with money you both already own?
    Just an out loud thought. Don’t mean to start a war. ss
     
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    In your case I would never have sex of any type . My wife / KH controls the money and almost everything else .
    Don't be surprised if you get some negative responses from your post.
     
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    It was her idea as a joke first. Then became a mutual agreement. Point taken if it was only one of us with the idea
     
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    in the context of a loving relationship this can work. I can see how people will struggle with the idea, though.
     
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    I'm so sorry,

    As a lover of comedy this thread gave me a flashback to the late great George Carlin and I just had to share.

    "Selling is legal"
    "Fucking is legal"
    "Why isn't selling fucking legal?"
     
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    As has been said many times elsewhere on this forum, there are many ways of doing chastity. What ever you do if it works then it's right!
     
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    If it makes you both happy.....
     
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    Enjoy your marriage as you choose. If your wife strictly controls the budget, It is a pretty wild financial control predicament.
     
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    To echo several of the above: I think the idea is fine if both of your are happy with it, and it sounds as if you are. There is obviously an element of humiliation in having to pay your own wife for sex and I can see that would be a buzz . . . especially if she is going to make it increasingly expensive until it rally hurts, at least financially . You could extend the game, possibly making more exciting, in a couple of ways: perhaps by starting with a sky-high price but becoming increasingly cheaper the longer you wait; you could also have a tariff of charges, being allowed out to masturbate, hand-job, oral, full PIV sex etc. It would also be fun to put all the money in a glass jar so you could see how much She's earned / saved and perhaps put it towards a holiday ?
     
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    I agree with most of the posters in this thread. If if is working for you, that's great.
     
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    Sounds great. I read years ago of a couple where the husband got sex in exchange for giving his wife housekeeping money. She charged £5 for a hand job, £10 for straight sex and £20 for oral, normally a total of £30 a week which he could choose how it was delivered. There was no mention of chastity devices which along with being able to earn bonuses by giving her orgasms while locked would have taken it to another level.
     
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    Well as you mention it and based on a similar principle of paying for release.

    When I worked in a fetish club a Lady there told me about their situation. How much people inplaces like that like(d) to explain their relationships and activities you would have to experience to believe.

    Every time she has an orgasm she awards him a penny or 10p for multiples. Some times if he's been anareshole or generally incooperative she might fine him a few pennies and he has to pay upbefore he can earn any more.

    The pennies are/were to pay for the replacement for his chastity cage which once he has bought it he is allowed at his partner's discretion to cut off the one being replaced...its lock is glued shut. I was told it takes him a little longer to save up each time as he is earning pennies less quickly and the replacement cages were getting generally dearer.

    What he did not know but she did tell me was that she was buying him a Lori tube for his birthday.
    Which if any of you doesn't know cost anywhere from £650 upwards.
     
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    It's a lot like giving her control of your finances. Just a little at a time. She should charge so much that youd have to save up for it. Imagine having to save up for months. Youd certainly appreciate it a lot more.
     
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    Many years ago my madam introduced a cum tax, where I could pay for a release to have a orgasm, then as our FLR increased, she realised it was her money anyway and It was more productive to get me to earn it. But if it works for you, that’s all that matters!
     
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    We have started doing something like this but my princess charges me spanks. On the first of the month i have to settle the monthly balance.
     
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