HONESTY

this is my feeling to.

 

Every so often someone comes on here to complain about what they consider falsehoods and fantasy, and yeah, there are, just ignore it. If you start calling people out you think are liars, you take the chance of calling out someone who is telling the truth, thus making it a very uncomfortable atmosphere here and probably making people leave or never join in the first place.

Personally I love it here, where else can you actually chat with people who know exactly what the trials and tribulations of chastity are, being able to relate with a group of diverse people is exactly why I love it here. Making everything confrontational will destroy what has been made here.

 

I once posted here in reference to another thread my wife and ours lifestyle and length of time ect which was factual
Was hinted by the next post I was just the foder you are hoping to avoid
So it's a tough thread lol

 

I take everything I read hear with a grain of salt. I don’t think I can actually tell what’s real or fake with much accuracy. There is plenty of things written about here that I would not want to experience. That doesn’t mean it is not useful because my wife and I can discuss it and decide how it applies to our relationship.

Honesty goes both ways. Other than making changes to protect privacy what I write is true and a bit under exaggerated. I try to give the other contributors here the benefit of the doubt and I hope they do the same for us.

 

For my part, I am truly held in chastity. Currently its a minimum of 3 days a month, but in reality this often extends to longer, sometimes weeks. I have a frenum piercing and a Steelworxx tube that locks into it, and combined with one-time metal tags me being locked up can be 100% verified remotely, and that truly prevents any orgasm (it has taken a lot of experimentation to get this working, but now it does).

A key factor for me is that when I am locked up, I have no way to unlock just because I want to. Loosing control is my thing. Luckily I found a friendly online group of people of others that want to be locked up, plus some dominants or switches, that achieves that. mutual control via lockup or verification videos, knowledge of each others chastity devices, and (since there is trust in that group) a set of information that I dont want to be published, and I can trust will only be used if I start cheating.