Honestly, how often are you edged?

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    Hey all,

    Just curious to see where I land. Are edges common, rare, or in between?

    Nerd
     
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    All the time. Four times a week when we are playing and I’m locked.
     
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    He would like it several times a day I bet but it’s more like one or two times a week. I have him edge to the rules while I watch. Over skype when I am not home. I will make him repeat the rules or say them and he repeats them. It’s a good way to embed them I think.
     
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    An actual emphasis on edging is rare for us right now as we're dealing with mostly short-term lockups. Although giving her oral regularly feels a bit like edging for me as my cock is going crazy in its steel prison. After that she may squeeze my balls and verbally tease about seeing he wants to get out but can't. Does that count as edging I'm not sure.
     
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    Up until recently, pretty much never. However, since I was unlocked for a couple of weeks due to skin irritation from heat and humidity, my wife found that she now enjoys teasing me with some cock stimulation. Edging is never her focus, but she occasionally gets me close by accident and then backs off so I don’t orgasm. She seems to enjoy the effect it has on me. She seems to take particular pleasure from getting me close and then making me stop for the night.
     
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    This is something that fluctuates from week to week. I would say on average once week. It really depends on her and of course how pleased she is with me in general. There can be nothing at all for 10 days and then tease, edge and denial on back to back days. Then again it could be much longer. Of course the little teases, comments and text messages are an on going occurrence any where and any time.
    I would supposed there are many different answers to this question as the lifestyle can be so different from couple to couple.
     
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    Depending on her mood sometimes 3 maybe 4 times a week some times a few weeks could go by with nothing its all up to she who must be obeyed
     
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    when we started, almost daily. now... not nearly as often. maybe once every other week if im lucky. however we interact with one another a hell of a lot more now than we ever have.
     
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    About once or twice per week, in the cage.
     
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    Edge? What's that?
    She teases me, often for just a few seconds.
    Her favourite phrase when teasing... "That's it!" (ie. that's all you're getting!)

    She's just so deliciously frustrating!
     
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    Its different from week to week but usually twice a week. Once in a while, she takes the cage off and gets on top of me to tease/edge me. When she stops and says "you know your not getting off" I about go insane.
     
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    it used to be every night.. now in average once a week.. (sometimes up to 3 sometimes not at all) :eek:
     
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    Edge just a few times a week, meanwhile tease never ends, 24/7/365.
     
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    None here. Only edge I get is playing with my own nipples! ;)
     
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    never
     
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    nor me. i am not and i never has been.
     
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    When we started it was almost daily.. now approx once a month.. she makes me beg to be edged because she knows how much i love it
     
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    I'm a cuckold, my wife has a lover, and then comes home to me. She is fair, if she has a great orgasm, and comes home satisfied , she will unlock me and let me masturbate till I get pleasure. If he doesn't bring her to a great finish, or a so, so finish and she is not satisfied, she will let me masturbate , then make me stop just at the point of Cumming and ruin in letting me dribble out. if she just isn't satisfied at all if he did a lousy job, she lets me rub till I get hard, then stops me and locks me back in,
     
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    The cuckold thing is interesting. Do you ever get to watch?
     
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    No I don't know her lovers or are allowed to take part. I waite at home. Just see it in my immagination as she describes the scene to me
     
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    I'm at work now and my slip is wet any questions? Constantly
     
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    I get teased frequently. I just returned from out of state performing work that did not permit me to be locked. On the first morning, I gave her pleasure. On the second morning, she teased, then performed her first edging and promptly locked me back up. She said hearing the lock click, is her favorite thing.

    The edging, then being immediately locked, was devastating.
     
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    Out of my cage, she teases sometimes, but I don't think you could call it edging. However, it's quite common for her to have me pleasure her with my tongue and her favorite dildo while she is over me in a 69 position, and my little penis gets extremely hard and dripping pre-cum while this is happening, whether it's free or in panties or whatever. Her face will be just above my penis, and her hair and her breath will stimulate it. I don't even know if she does that intentionally. Probably. Anyway, this always gets me right to the edge, and occasionally I've even accidentally cum from this. When she is satisfied from her orgasms she often tells me to pull my panties back on, clean up, and no masturbating! I guess maybe that is edging after all. :)

    I've found that when I have been locked up previous times her teasing has often been minimal, infrequent and brief, if at all. But I've been amazed this time. She has teased me every day, often more than once a day. She'll grab it, rub it... very frustratingly, she's found she very much likes sneaking her fingers between the bars of the cage and rubbing my penis to get it to fill the cage, and she'll keep going as I squirm and even try to turn away, for which she scolds me and does it even more. When she is satisfied that I've been thoroughly teased she'll stop and go back to whatever she's doing.
     
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    Usually get edged once or twice a week. Not as much lately. She knows I love it though.
     
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    Are you allowed to do clean up duty?
     
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