Has anyone been in a bdsm Relationship , and been put in chasity For an extended time , and not have the Girlfriend you live with notice ? Is it Possible ? joej
depends on the intimacy of your relationship. If you're in separate beds (or rooms) yes it's possible. If you're still having sexual relations it's going to be pretty difficult to keep it hidden....
Sounds like a fun game until she finds out. Don't come to the forum asking for help when she does! To answer the question, yes it could be possible, but is it probable? Like death, her finding out is a once and impossible to reverse event.
Or, you could be honest with your Partner. She should know and be able to make a decision if it's Her particular kind of cocktail.
She might not notice it at first, then pretend everything is 'normal', and then the excrement will meet the oscillating air moving device and you'll be glad if you escape with some of internal organs relatively intact.
Hmm, not exactly the same, but I've had two experiences that might be relevant here... When I first developed an interest (or obsession) with chastity I discussed it with my wife, and her initial reaction was indifference. I ended up buying an inexpensive CB-6000s device and wearing it periodically when she wasn't around. Then I got a little more bold and wore it overnight a couple times, and she didn't notice. PIV sex was pretty rare even when it was actually allowed, and even though I was more aroused when wearing the device she wouldn't notice I was wearing it if I was going down on her. Finally, I decided to just wear it continuously and let her discover it, which ended up being the best thing I could do. After a week or so she noticed that I was much more romantic and attentive, and she asked me what was going on. I pulled down my pants and showed her the device and waited anxiously for her reaction. She demanded the key and has kept it ever since. Years later I was unlocked at the time and had corresponded with an online Domme. I think I had admitted to prematurely ejaculating to a video of hers where I was supposed to control my orgasm. This lovely young lady ordered me to not orgasm for over a week and then cum all over my own face and send her proof. Somehow it came about that my wife initiated PIV sex during that time, and I told her that I was under orders not to orgasm. She thought it was hilarious and was relieved not to be bothered with my tiny penis anyway. She, as usual, enjoyed the large dildo with my help, and I was left even more frustrated.