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High heel bondage/punishment

Discussion in 'Other fetishes' started by DrChastity, Apr 5, 2018.

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    So I have this crazy intense fetish for women in high heels, and also being made to worship their heels, preferably while being whipped or caned. I'm a straight sub male and I don't have any real sissy preferences, although I think my fetish for high heels and bondage spills over into my desire to be forced to wear extremely high heels as a type of punishment. I tend to prefer heels that are so high that I find them uncomfortable. These have historically been too high for me to ever be able to stand in. And if they have an ankle strap or can be locked on me, that's my preference. I fantasize about my Mistress (which I don't have currently. I wish my wife was my Mistress but it's just not her thing) making me sleep in very high heels and putting me in enough bondage (actually, the more, the better) such that I cannot remove the heels if I wanted to. Anyone else have similar tastes? And are there any of you out there that don't really engage in anything else that would be considered 'sissy'? Just curious...
     
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    i love high-heels! Both seeing them on a woman's feet and wearing them. I also like the bondage aspect of it, how it makes walking difficult or impossible. I have this lovely pair of ballet-boots with a lockable zipper that render the lacings inaccessible:
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    i'm slowly learning to stand in them and take some steps when i brace myself against a wall...
     
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    please be careful if you do wear some cos its danger if you fall and then your ankle might break and then you wont be able to walk. i fell over once in some platforms and that hurt.
     
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    I make BF wear 6" heels if he's been extra naughty. I've had him stand in the corner in them, too. For scheduled disciplinary sessions, he has to be in the corner 30 min before I get home and since I dictate what he wears for discipline, I also dictate the shoes. I've decreed 6" heels more than a few times. He never knows the exact time I'll be home, so he's usually in the corner longer. I have a security camera pointing to his corner, so I know when he's there.

    If I've decreed 6" heels, usually I make a few stops on the way home or I get "held over" at work "just to make sure everything's done and all the loose ends are taken care of" (tee hee).

    The 6" heels are unpleasant for BF, but when he complains or protests, I just remind him if he didn't disobey me, he wouldn't have to worry about it.
     
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    I have very similar tastes. High heels were a gateway into other cross dressing items but remain my one primary feminine go to and I wouldn't wear other female clothes without heels. The higher the better! I don't consider myself a sissy but do enjoy being 'forced' into women's clothing, primarily latex, as a form of humiliation and slavery/subservience.

    I have an online Mistress who has been training me in high heel wearing. I have been required to go on walks around my neighbourhood late at night with high heels on. Each walk progressed either in distance, heel height or heel width so I'm now doing a couple of blocks in five inch stilettos when originally I started out doing one block in four inch block heels.

    I have a pair of seven inch heeled lace up boots with no platform. These are almost impossible for me to wear as my ankles are not flexible enough to fully straighten my legs. She had me dress in my latex maids dress, latex stockings, latex gloves and hood and stand in these heels. Whilst I am standing I am allowed to touch and play with my cock and can edge as much as I like but am not allowed to orgasm. However, as soon as I sit down I am then not allowed to touch myself any more at all for the remainder of the day. This is to encourage me to get better at standing in the heels.
     
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    Two words: Ballet boots! :love::lock:
     
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    As a long time CD I do love my heels,,despite being tall anyway I wear 4 and 5 " heels all day often.
    I have a very large collection,but do avoid platforms..I have always wanted to try ballet boots out of curiosity,but not worth paying lot of money just to try..never found anyway with size 12's I could borrow
     
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    I have a couple of pairs of ballet boots. Definitely go for lace up ankle length ones as a minimum if you want to stand any chance of standing in them. The ones with Mary Jane straps look great but are not stable enough for wearing apart from lying down.

    They take some getting used to and it's been a few years since I've been able to walk in them with any semblance of confidence. Even then it took a fair bit of training and practice to get to a stage where I could walk across the room without looking like I was about to fall over.

    I have huge envy of the girls you see online who can walk in them easily, although I suspect most, if not all of them have a decent level of ballet pointe training.

    If you do buy a pair (eBay has some good offers these days) then you will need to pad the toe area out. I used to use an old stress ball cut to the right size and shape to support my toes.

    Then again, you may not want to be able to walk or stand in them. I can certainly agree that having them locked on is a very effective bondage approach.
     
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    Nanny encourages me to dress up and wear heels. She thinks it's sexy. I've been getting better at it and am now comfortable in 5" heels. Not sure I'd be able to manage ballet boots.
     
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    well really girls that do ballet dont wear boots. they has ballet shoes.
     
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    You're right, Jemima :)
     
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    Mistress has some figure 8, lockable straps that can be put on me over any of my shoes to keep me locked in them. When I am locked in the 4" high heels and properly trussed up in a corset, it is, at first, very exciting. But after a couple of hours, the corset makes breathing difficult when sitting down and the heels make standing up more difficult and so I often find myself lying in bed, staying constantly aware of the sound of the garage door opening! ( would be punished even more if caught lying around during the day!
     
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    Buenas experiencias.
    Yo amo estar encerrado en sandalis con correas bloqueadas con candados.
    Esto convenciendo a mi esposa para guardar las llaves en caja cerradura electronica retardada.
     
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    You naughty girl. :love:
     
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    Ballet boots are a type of fetish shoe, and not warn by ballerinas. The "ballet" in the name is due to the boot shape forcing the foot to be en point.
     
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    that mean then that you has to walk on tippy toe. oooh you cant do that for long.
     
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    It depends one the boots... In those i posted above, there's enough support for the feet, so there's not much weight resting on the toes. The problem is, that you need to be able to flex your ankles enough, before you can stand with straight legs. That takes a lot of practice. I hope to get to that point one day...
     
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    Yep, that's the point of them, a type of bondage.
     
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    i wud fall over a lot and i wudnt be able to do my cleaning jobs.
     
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    Oooooooooo! I'm already imagining bf in a pair of those in the corner for an hour! I'll have to look for some in larger sizes!

    Maybe an hour in the corner in those with some other disciplinary measures will finally break him of his pornography habit.
     
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    Good luck on the larger sizes! I wear a size 14 man's shoe and have difficulty finding anything but very conservative heels in my women's size (15-16)!
     
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    He wears a women's size 11.
     
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    Check out this site for heels. I bought a pair and I am woman’s size 15 and I love them.
    http://thesissystore.com/