Hello, Thank you for welcoming me to your community. I have lived most my live in alpha male roles but have always longed to be submissive and a sissy. On the verge of divorce, my wife took the key and we agreed to set rules and communicate our needs. The cage was my idea helping me transform more into a submissive and sissy. So, yea, I'm here to learn, chat, mingle, and make some friends. Janie
Welcome you will learn a lot here and make wonderful friends it is an excellent group of wonderful people
Just curious, did the change in lifestyle stem the divorce thoughts? It appears you made some changes that your KH/Wife found acceptable? Or is the divorce still out there in the background?
Welcome to CM. I hope that what you read here will help you and your wife to navigate your marriage in such a way that you both learn, grow and strengthen your bond. Good Luck, and we look forward to hearing more about you, your wife and your situation. ~subrick
Divorce is still in the background. We have agreed to take it off the table for 12 months to focus on communication. We had been struggling for quite some time. I had always CD but have become more comfortable and open about it, which she is not opposed to but does not share the same interest. Kink has always been a friction point in our relationship. I being the kinky one willing to explore with very few known limits. She being the vanilla and more traditional struggles to understand the why. Such as why I CD, she believes something had to have happened to me at a young age. Not to knowledge, I simply like the feel, the look, the sexyness, the glam, and anal lol. It has definitely increased the risk for divorce as I am open to exploring while she is not. We are also pregnant (accidental) and I have an extremely hard time walking away from a family. That said I am definitely leaning towards the 24/7/lifestyle D/s or at least more often CD while my family is completely unaware. Lots of life struggles going kn here. Hot mess to say the least.
Lots of love, man. I hope you can find a way with your wife to make things work, whatever that happens to look like for you two.