Dear Everyone Wanted to say hi as I've just joined the site. It's my second attempt at chastity. Two years ago on our wedding anniversary I locked myself for my wife, but she showed little interest and didn't care if I was in or out. The problem being those night time erections and not toughing it out. I've used the site for the past three or four days now getting advice on how to deal with that and finding ways of encouraging her to get on board as she has little idea of what it's truel supposed to be about. I'm four days in, I'm up 3/4 times a night trying to get rid of night time growing pains (I'm sure you know what I mean), so any advice besides bathroom visits (there's only so many times a guy can go) and frozen peas on the balls, I'd be ever so grateful. Looking forward to hearing more. The newest newbie Kodama
Don’t over lubricate your base ring or your erection will force your balls down as far as they will stretch. No bueno! Wear the smallest cage you can and wear tight briefs. You just have to force yourself to deal with it for 3-4 weeks. Just don’t wake the wife up for the key or she will get tired of things really quick. And avoid drinking anything within a few hours of bed time.
heloo @Kodama and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well. trying to get hard at nite will stop happen after a bit cos your willy will know it cant.
Thanks for the tips. I'm on the smallest setting/spacer The Vice offers with the anti-pull out clip thing on, so hopefully movement is kept to a minimum. I'm not currently lubricating anything before bed, should I be? Thanks for the help.
I use a very tiny dab of Vaseline. Helps stop the scrotum burn. You just want to make sure your cage doesn’t have any extra room in it when you are flaccid.
We all start with the same idea. I need a cage that allows room for growth. The longer your locked and the more you learn about being locked you'll also realize that smaller is better, now don't get carried away by going so small that you damage your wives property especially with the base ring. It's a fine line finding the smallest and most comfortable cage for you. It's like buying a car, part of the fun is test driving a few before you find the one that fits your lifestyle perfectly.
Thanks for the advice. I've played around with these devices for a few years now, but haven't ever really committed, mostly because of the night time awakenings. After reading a few posts on here, I see it's common and that it's just a case of riding it out, not drinking too much before bed, getting up to pee, frozen peas on my own veg to calm down and a tiny bit of lubrication... Plus having the correct for of course. I feel ready with the knowledge now to tackle this. Thanks for all the help and on my first post too.
I agree with @Mash2214 . The smallest tube possible is the best way to prevent/control arousals and erections. I think that most guys are so accustomed to their penis growing and shrinking that they naturally think the need to leave room for the arousals! NOT! When my flaccid penis is tight in it's tube,there can be no arousal and it stops right there - before it starts.
I'm in the smallest size possible for The Vice. I can just get anfi get under the ring, which was advice I saw on another thread. I realize now that there are different types of pain/discomfort that men suffer from this over night penis activity. Mine has nithinoto do with my balls or scrotum, but with the skin near the head. I'm curcumcised and the skin just before the head get pushed out of the breathing holes/slits and doesn't allow the the shaft to move. It's being pinched in a way. We took it off this morning to have a look and I've two perfectly symmetrical bruises on either side of my shaft. I've taken the anti-slip device off, as I probably need it to slip/move/grow a little in the night and have lubed up with coconut oil. Fingers crossed as last jigjni was up 7 times and gave up thencobceptof soeepinsat half past 4. Thank god for Netflix!