Welcome. We are middle aged and new as well. Like you my wife hasn't realized the full potential of the opportunity she has at hand. Btw, nice move in the shower @Ms Molly ....great ending for Bob. He likely didn't sleep a wink after that move. Good luck to you both.
How wonderful! Mrs Chaste often comes in when I'm having my shower to give me a good tease. Once she has me moaning and really hard inside my cage she just leaves with a big smile on her face! It's absolutely lovely!!
He did. I know he really wanted to cum but no way. I really felt bad not giving him the attention he wanted but when we started this journey, this is what he wanted. He's been caged for over three months except for weekly cage cleaning and occasional masturbation. Molly
Wonderful report on your progress with your partner. May this year bring continued happiness to you both!!
And that’s the thrill of being caged. Yes, he wanted to cum, but deep down what he wanted MORE was exactly what you gave him....denial and frustration. I suspect he is paying a LOT of attention to you these days, and is quite happy.
Oh he is for sure. I admire his constant attention to my needs, He always did but not at this level, Before leaving this morning for a couple of skin tag removals Bob came in the kitchen with just a towel after showering so to start his day I lifted the towel and gently kissed his cage, He melted but I said be a good boy while I am gone. He had the look of What Just Happened. I chuckled as I looked back at him..........
Welcome. My Goddess and I are both 58, I guess you would call us 'middle aged' also. But age is just a number. Enjoy CM - it really is a great supportive community.
Amazing. And you didn't know what was expected of you?!?! From where I sit, you sound like a natural to me
hello ms. molly. yes ,i have been lock for some time now , and we are also new to this site my wife (~: key holder :~) is sitting next to me helping me compose this message, she put me in lock down because we use to be swingers,, and she wanted to slow down?!!she is LOL// and my little head wanted to keep going , wife here -- so i locked him up until i know he will be good!!, but now we both enjoy the life style and he is ok. with it,, it took a little while for him/us to get used it ,, especially when we would leave the house we found hiding the cages that he likes to wear were noticeable in the jeans he was wearing // i do not think anyone cares ,( only one time at a bar when a young lady ask me if it was really that big ,, i just smiled so after a while he just goes every were but work with one on,, as soon as he come home i see to it he locks up most of the time he dose it without me telling him now that control LOL i hope we can message more soon // and i hope that we did not offend you both..? maybe so day we can talk ?
We thought about the swinger thing some time ago but never really pursued it because of Covid. We are mostly stay at home during this lock down and if we do go out its very early in the day. I think I lost part of my message. Did you get the whole message, it was lengthy ? If not I will start all over again Molly
Well I answered my own question. The thought of swinging with another couple came up again over a lite breakfast. I told Bob to just drop it. I want to make him happy but the thought of another man just dosent work for me. Let us hear more of your experiences. It makes it easier to respond. Molly
There is a lot of people trying open relationships now a days. However, one of the things I cherish most in my life is that my relationship with my wife is exclusive. We are each others first and only. I wouldn't do or allow anything to corrupt that part of our love. Keep true to your feelings because there is nothing wrong with them.
So glad you feel that way. When you love someone that much U do not share. Hope to hear from U soon Molly