Hello everyone, I am new here and I wish to present myself. I am not a native english speaker, please pardon my poor English. To state clearly from the beginning, I'm presently alone and not looking for a relationship. I work for a international company and travel a lot, presently in South America. I've read this forum a while back but never really visited much in the past and look forward to being more involved in this community as to maybe embark on this new adventure! I have a pale idea what all this means or what will happen next when and if my mind will be cleared, but I'm intrigued, you say the least, so any help would be greatly appreciated. There are some questions revolving on my mind and sure with the help of the forists I will have the answers. Firstly and foremost, why a woman would want to emasculate her man - assuming he is not a complete jerk, of course. Another question: I believe on a balanced relationship, complying with the rules of mutual love and not forced in any way. This does not imply that only vanilla sex is allowed- the couple could engage in more rough gameplaying and thats ok, but not for day to day. Am I wrong? Or there are some ideas that i have not yet understood about love and commitment? I assume that many people has and can fulfill the answers. Thank you.