Hi honest intro

Welcome @Christhatoneguy . I hope it helps you. It has for many.

 

Welcome. A number of members here will empathize. Good luck.

 

I can remember being 24 just about. No internet porn back then so it had to be a mag from the top shelf. If your not careful the cage will actually become a huge turn on and make you more horny than ever. I think you need a partner to help you but that's not easy I know. I wish you well mate I really do. You take care.

 

I have been a chronic masturbater for most of my life, addicted to porn, wasting days.
Chastity has helped me. I'm still on a journey.
I still masturbate, but I keep coming back to chastity. Each time longer than the last.

There is an iPhone app called ChastiKey. You can lock your keys in a combination box or with a combination lock.
Or there is the KitchenSafe which will lock them for up to 10 days.

However, I find that simply being locked is enough to break my habit. It prevents erections and no erection means I won't masturbate. Of course I can take it off, but it takes time and by the time it's off, often my mood to masturbate has gone. Of course I can watch more porn and get back in the mood, but.....

Anyway. Get yourself a plastic starter cage and enjoy the training. I recommend the Holy Trainer to begin with.

 

Welcome to the mansion.
1 key thing to remember is that a cage is only half the equation the other half being will power.
I know I had a chronic masturbation problem but the problem for me was that I could easily manipulate myself in a cage to cum so chastity is mostly mental, the cage is more of a reminder to stay abstinent.

I wish you luck on your journey and remember were here on the forums to help and support each other through chastity and denial.

 

This is a very true statement that the cage is half the equation. One must never underestimate the effects of willpower. You will find much support from the folks on this forum with good advice....and some bad! Lol. If you successfully lock up comfortably there is still a very real danger that should you try to “defeat” the device you more than likely will succeed. The first step which you mentioned in the OP is that you really want to break the addiction. That is a mental issue that can’t be fixed by a material object that will most likely pose a minor challenge to get past. If you truly want to quit in combination with the device you may find success.

Start slow and set short goals for yourself. Wear the device for a few hours before you succumb to the need to masturbate. If you can work this up to a few days in between you may find your addiction shift to seeing how long you can go in between masturbation. Just remember that the real key to chastity in my opine is that you have to be willing to allow it to affect and change your mind before it truly works. Do some reading on the physiology of the chemical exchange that happens during arousal and orgasm in men. It is amazing what actually happens in our brains and we are truly better off with fewer and fewer orgasms.

Best of luck to you!

 

Welcome to our community and good luck with your plan. It can be a long process, but it sounds like you have the desire to make it. Good luck.

 

Just a question, are you single? Just thinking out loud here, but single people, ones without partners, self pleasure and watch porn...like all the time. Add on that you are only 24, and it’s actually a victory that you even leave the house!

I can’t imagine getting into this to stop getting off when there is no one benefiting from your renewed attitude. I suppose it would relieve you of spending so much time that is unproductive, but you could cure that with finishing yourself off quicker and being done.

Welcome to the mansion, hope you find what you’re looking for

 

Hi there and welcome to the mansion, I hope you can find the help you need here.