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    Hi folks,

    I joined the site a few days ago after stumbling across it while looking for male chastity resources and thought it was time to introduce myself.
    I'm Khelan (pronounced Kell-an), live just outside Glasgow in Scotland and my wife and I have been into BDSM and fetish stuff (mostly Latex and bondage) since roughly our late teens and have been together since our early/mid twenties (I'm now in my 40's so that'll give you an idea of how long we've been together).

    After years of my fantasising about it, buying a couple of cheap cages for occasional use and half-jokingly suggesting it from time to time my wife decided to give putting me into longer term chastity a try and after a lengthy tease and denial session locked me up on the 15th of this month and asked me if I thought I'd be capable of staying this way until the end of the month since it's NO-vember after all? I had a bit of a think about it and said I'll give it a go.

    It's taking a bit of getting used to especially getting woken up with night-time erections and having her doing her best to tease and keep me frustrated but so far I'm enjoying it. She's already asked me once I get out and get my "reward" at the end of the month if I'd like to go back into it and try for the whole month of December. I'm a bit apprehensive about it but she's told me that she has been thinking about it a lot and is working on an "advent calendar" of different tasks for me to do during each day of the month which has really excited me and I've told her that as long as this session goes well and we both don't find it too difficult then I'll give it a go.

    Other than kink stuff I'm into motorcycles, model building, video games and rock climbing (obviously without the cage on because that'd just be silly/dangerous) and suffer from ADHD which can make life very difficult at times because I tend to say/do things without thinking about them first.

    Well that's pretty much all I can think of for an introduction, I'm looking forward to seeing how my chastity experience goes and hopefully getting a bit more involved on here.
     
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    Welcome to The Mansion. Enjoy your journey.

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    Welcome to our community. Enjoy.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Thanks for the warm welcome folks, this place seems to be very friendly and I've already read loads of good information on here.
     
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    Welcome! Like your avatar!
     
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    Thanks it makes me smile every time I look at it.
     
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    Welcome to the group, I enjoyed reading your intro. it’s nice to hear others have a fun, realistic journey starting a chaste lifestyle. Check out the many forums and ask questions, we’re here to help
     
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    I have a grandson who is both ADHD and autistic so that resonates with me.

    Have you had any issues wearing the device 24x7 this month? Any chafing or other skin irritations?

    Have you been let out at all during November for any type of orgasms? Will the same be true for December? 30 days is a long time so early in your chastity journey... if you go for it, that will be the longest month of your life!!! LOL
     
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    Welcome to the community. Your avatar made me giggle too!
     
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    ADHD can be good fun at times and bloody frustrating at others, when I'm having a good brain day I can accomplish just about anything I need to do but when I'm having a bad day then I'm lucky if I can manage to tie my own shoelaces lol.

    Other than getting woken up a few times a night by erections I've had a minor bit of chafing around the bottom of my nut sack but from what I've read that's to be expected and I've been applying moisturiser to the area to keep everything nice and supple.
    I've been out a few times for supervised hygiene purposes and got out on Sunday night because we were playing and my wife kinda got carried away if you know what I mean and I can't forsee things being any different during December.

    We're going to try for the month and I'm certainly bloody minded enough to try and get through it although if we fail then it's not the end of the world we're essentially doing it for fun and as an experiment to see what kind of difference it makes to our relationship. I've already noticed that I'm a bit more affectionate than I was before and there's no pressure on her to do anything if she doesn't feel like it.
     
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    It sounds like your wife is having fun with this especially with her advent calendar. Let us know what her observations are as you progress and what she enjoys from it.
     
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    Will do, it's certainly different from any other type of play we've done in the past, we've sorta had a switchy kind of dynamic with her tending more towards the submissive side but she's enjoying this far more than she thought she would and to be honest so am I.
     
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    hello @Khelan and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well.
     
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    Hi and welcome! I would love to learn more about the advent calendar tasks she comes up with. My wife mentioned the same idea the other day. We just started last week and are planning a fun locked December, we'll have to compare notes as we go.
     
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    Well I get my first "advent calendar" task tomorrow so I'll report back then.

    To mark the end of NO-vember I've been told I can sleep without the cage on (No orgasm for me though because Mrs K isn't feeling well). It's weird I've only been wearing it for a little over a week and I'm currently lying in my bed with it off and it feels like there's something missing.

    We've agreed that during the course of December I'm going to have one night a week without it so I can (hopefully) get a decent night's sleep.
     
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    @IB-Chaste , you seem to think that removing the cage for periods of time would make it difficult to restart chastity. Do you think the one night a week being unlocked that @Khelan 's wife is proposing would lengthen his break in period?
     
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    I definitely think it will make his other nights worse… is one night a week a good balance though? Possibly.
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    Greetings from Glasgow. I like climbing too:)
     
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    How is your advent adventure going for you?
     
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    It's been going quite well, we've had a lot of fun with it but unfortunately Miss A's been really sick for the last few days so we've not done anything with it, I'm still locked away and we've decided once Christmas is over we're going to look into getting a decent quality metal cage instead of the cheap HT v3 knock-off I've been using.
     
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