I've been lurking about for a few months so thought I'd formally introduce myself. My KH and I are a middle age married couple willing to try new things. I decided on my own to purchase a chastity device after reading about them. After purchasing my CB 6000s, I have spent several months sizing rings and spacers until arriving at a fit that is both secure & comfortable for long term wear. In the beginning, I did everything wrong when trying to introduce my spouse to chastity play, which I'll cover in a future post. However, my spouse has agreed to be my KH and everything is going to work out despite my missteps. My spouse/KH is a great lady and I care for her deeply. Many of us submissives try to top from the bottom and I'm no different. She has made it clear that this is going to be on her terms and timetable. This is good because I tend to want everything now and her restraint will probably make our D/s relationship stronger and make the journey more meaningful. In closing let me say that this site is outstanding as a resource for those of us just starting out. I have learned a lot and my KH is starting to explore as well. Thank you all very much.