Well, I have lurked around all types of sites for years concerning BDSM. There is a wide variety of the way people incorporate their kinks into their life. I came across chastity through this while I was a teen. The idea of the physical control that is always with you. Along with it's ability to be used as a training device is what I'm really interested in. I see that a lot of people who implement this have a stronger connection with their female/male key holder. So here I am! Maybe I'll find a like minded lady here and if not I certainly look forward to learning more.