Greetings, I'm Dragos. I live in a 24/7 FLR with my Domme, Mistress Oasis. I've been in full-time chastity for two years now. For us, the cage is not a sexual thing. It is a symbol of my devotion to her - like a collar I can wear all the time that no one sees. Therefore, I'm kind of an odd-ball in that - for us - it's not about orgasms, or how long I can go without an orgasm, or being denied orgasms. For me, D/s is more about submission, service, and masochism than it is sexual drive. I far prefer an intense whipping over an orgasm. Yes, call me crazy... I'm the author of two books, "FemDom Dating: The Submissive Male's Guide to Attracting Dominant Women" and "Energy and BDSM: Exploration of a Deeper Experience," and I write a blog for WellHeeledDominatrix.com from a submissive male's point of view. I've joined CM to explore more about others' experiences with chastity so that I can write from a more neutral position, rather than only expressing my thoughts from the perspective of my own dynamic. I look forward to browsing and conversing with other members here.