Hi guys, so glad I found this site! So I'm fairly new to this, my husband and I have tried the chastity cage/denial route for a couple of year on and off. I'm open to any and all tips you guys may have
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It was really my husbands idea/kink, I'm along for the ride to make him happy and satisfied it's working really well so far but I'm too nice and he would like for me to be a bit meaner in the denial/teasing so that's what I need most help on
100% is submissive, he would like me to be alot more dominant towards him but I do feel guilty to how far I can deny him. I did read the forum on here and that has made me happy to know that it's alot more common than what I thought. Also I'm not sure what FLR is fully I need to do some research on that
Well, now you know where you are heading. First, you are a rare and amazing woman to accept him, work with him, and do research. There is a little book that is rarely discussed, but it is the only one I know of so far that talks in depth about “why” he is submissive and how he thinks. Most books jump right over “why” to “how”. Some authors also profess “rules” to follow. The only rules you need are the ones you create. https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Relationship-Nirvana-Submissive-Beginners-ebook/dp/B084TP4MFH/ref=sr_1_1?crid=LYAAEKM02CMX&keywords=Sex+and+relationship+nirvana&qid=1678972481&sprefix=sex+and+relationship+nirvana,aps,159&sr=8-1 Unless you understand how he thinks, you will remain in your perpetual guilt loop. Once you understand how he thinks, you will find that denying him is what he craves, and providing denial is a deep act of love from you. Nothing to be guilty about at all. FLR is the acronym for Female Led Relationship. You are most certainly headed in that direction. It is probably not what you imagined when you thought about marriage and a relationship, and you do need to reconcile that if you are disappointed. Yet on the other hand, if you are willing to explore the concept with an open mind, you can have a relationship that will endure, possibly causing your friends to notice and ask why you are so happy and how you do it. A FLR requires frequent, open and honest communication. By that alone, you will develop a much deeper and intimate relationship than ever before. You have the potential to have the relationship you always dreamed of, and much, much more. You made a great start visiting this forum. Every question you have is worth asking.
Wow thank you for being so informative on the subject! The whole reason as to why we started this in the first place was to reach a better understanding of each others wants and needs. We've been together for a decade now and it's amazing how much I'm still learning about him. I'm fairly open to any and all subjects within this community apart from a few that I'm just not ready to dive into yet. I will have a look at the book request as I do need some new light reading before bed
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