(Originally posted in the wrong place. *hopes this is the right place*) Hi there. I'm pretty new to chastity but haven't worn the one I got much. I have a feeling it's too small, perhaps to heavy as well. Since I've never really seen someone erect in a device I don't know what I experienced is.."okay". So i have a few questions: - How do you tell if the device is to small? - How the device is to tight? - When the inevitable happens and I get erect. The whole cage gets pushed and stretches my whole package, really tight, and gets pretty painful after a few minutes. I basically get a normal erection in the cage, it tugs and stretches my scrotum and I basically have an almost fully erect penis, with a cage on the end...umm...is that supposed to happen?