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    #1 tecolote, Oct 18, 2018
    Hi All. Just a married man in California interested in chastity, but not very experienced with it.

    I'm trying to get my wife interested in exploring with me. She's expressed some interest, but I think she also is a little uncomfortable with the idea, too. Hopefully she will join me on this forum at some point.
     
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    #2 LesterBallard, Oct 18, 2018
    welcome. You'll find lots of threads about how to promote the idea of chastity to a sceptical partner.
     
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    #3 MrMartini, Oct 18, 2018
    Welcome, hope you find the support you need.
     
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    #4 Lil14SPH, Oct 18, 2018
    Greetings everyone! I’m a sub male into SPH and CFNM
     
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    #5 filltee, Oct 18, 2018
    I can thoroughly recommend this
    www.goodreads.com/book/show/13299269-be-careful-what-you-wish-for

    It is by Sarah Jameson and for want of a better description it is a very good down to earth almost vanilla book on male chastity which without going into the more extreme fantasy fem dom sissy aspects of This Thing That We Do. It condemns nothing it is written in such a style as to inform and encourage rather than over face and put deter the uninitiated.

    Also if you want to know how and why male chastity works from a purely scientific standpoint try this
    https://www.reuniting.info/node/4865
    BUT if you think you prefer the 'magic' that it does work over the reasons why then this might be too much of a spoiler. Safe to say there are good scientific reasons why some guys want to be locked up and denied ..myself included
     
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    #6 Rectrix, Oct 18, 2018
    You've already crossed the most difficult hurdle -- telling your wife that you want to be chaste for her. Welcome and good luck.
     
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    #7 tecolote, Oct 18, 2018
    Is it out of print? It doesn't seem to be available from my regular sources. I already got her a book, so another book might be overkill, even if it is more appropriate for our situation.
     
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    #8 Joey love, Oct 18, 2018
    Welcome, im in the process of a trial period with my wife. Keys hanging on her mirror. Hasn’t shown much interest as of yet but I’m hopeful.
     
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    #9 Goddess Gaia, Oct 19, 2018
    Show her my "why chastity" journal and the keyholder forum. We don't bite, and several of us would be happy to talk if she wants a woman's perspective
    Gaia <3 <3
     
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    #10 Mistress B, Oct 19, 2018
    I hate acronyms. sorry @tecolote if I ruined your thread.
     
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    #11 Jblocked, Oct 19, 2018
    Welcome and good luck
     
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    #12 Ma’ams Slut, Oct 21, 2018
    Welcome and good luck getting her to learn about it and You def are in the right place where people are friendly and have good info
     
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    #13 Chaste J., Oct 21, 2018
    Trouble with them is most of the time I can't work out what the hell they mean!
     
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    #14 boisub, Oct 22, 2018
    IKR?
     
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    #15 Mistress B, Oct 27, 2018
    True. Also, with some there can be more that one meaning. Why people can't use the Queen's English is beyond me.
     
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    #16 boisub, Oct 27, 2018
    I’m righting two say they’re is no excuse for people who don’t know how two spell write - especially too or more words that sound the same but their spelled differently. It’s to distracting and sometimes when they right something I have to read it too times two understand it.
     
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    #17 Rectrix, Oct 27, 2018
    You jest half to except that your to chaste four them.
     
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    #18 Joey love, Oct 27, 2018
    It took me a while to get that joke!!!!!
     
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    #19 Chaste J., Oct 27, 2018
    :) O.K that's enough! Very funny. Thing is Mistress B, not everyone speaks Queens English. Language evolves, our cousin's from across the ocean and those from down under especially have developed their own way of speaking and spelling, which is as it should be. Funny as well how some of the words created have come into use in the UK! Must say though I'm a bit anal about punctuation! Trouble is I have no doubt I don't get it right all the time. Strange discussion to have on a site dedicated to Chastity! Especially in someone's introduction! Sorry telcolote. :)
     
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    #20 boisub, Oct 27, 2018
    Yes, sorry @tecolote for hijacking your introduction thread! A belated welcome to the Mansion from me. It looks like you’re finding your way around, and you’re in good hands with this community.
     
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    #21 Joey love, Oct 27, 2018
    Thanks, been an interesting weekend. Nothing major but seems to be dabbling a little. As of right now I’m just letting her go at her pace and see where it takes us
     
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    #22 Lee the sub, Oct 27, 2018
    Welcome, if she didn't reject it totally she will probably come around in her own time. My girlfriend wasn't sure about it at first either but was willing to try. Didn't take her long to figure out that she loves it. Has made our love life alot more active for sure. I find more of my attention is focused on her now.
     
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