Hello everyone, My boyfriend of 3 years is hiding male chastity belts from me. I'd be ok and might even join him as his "goddess" ...if it's just us 2- if he were open and honest but he does it behind my back- first time I found it in his back pack while putting his folded clothes away, second time I saw he was on KIK in a bondage chat room talking dirty to other women. This last time I found another one in his backpack, this one is meta and has a lock that requires a code VS a key. I brought it up to him both times and asked why he doesn't tell me about it- second time I wasn't upset because other women were involved and I wasn't his "goddess" he promised he wouldn't get on the chat again- this time he's not in the chat but he's got another "toy"- and he's hiding it from me...again. I don't think he's cheating- but I'm not sure, he goes to work without his boxers on, -and he's very protective of his phone. We live together so I think I would know if he had a mistress "key holder"...help!!!!