Help with Chastity

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  1. rbrboyftlauderdale
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    Hello all,
    I posted a message a few weeks ago asking if anyone could help me with trying differant chastity devices prior to purchasing my own or finding someone who wanted to keep me in chastity. I find it fuinny that there are so many people here with multiple devices and no one is willing to allow me to try one to see if I like it

    Hope that there is someone who can help


    Thanks
     
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    Hi

    my 2c

    A chastity device is not something that I would like to share with someone else, (for ovious reasons).
    You can look in the marketplace for a 2nd hand device that you can buy and if you dont like it, resell it.
    I hope you come right.

    (sorry english is not my home language)
     
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    I have to agree. No one except me would be permitted to wear any of my devices due to the health factors involved. I have bought second hand as well as sold a couple devices, but wouldn't loan one out. The cleaning that needs to be done to effectively sterilize them is a hassle.

    I'd recommend reading about what people like about the various devices, and keeping an eye on the For Sale section on here. You can generally pick up second hand devices for around 50-60% of original price, plus shipping.
     
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    OK it is a hassle but you should clean yours regularly. And here is how. Get yourself a pressure cooker fill with water and insert your device, following these instructions. This will sterilize anything.

    Now i am not recommending everyone start trading out out chastity devices. In fact, I'm recommending thorough cleaning and one can get out one's pressure cooker and make things as clean as possible. And these are a lot less expensive than an autoclave. Of course, the autoclave does have a drying cycle.

    With respect to the original poster:

    you are obviously interested in chastity and it is encouraged that you try that. But you're just not going to get anyone to part with their device as they are either in use, too expensive to loan or just not something anyone is going to part with right now. Time to fork over the cash and try things out. But there are some really good threads here reviewing the CDs out there. And that should help you to decide.
     
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    Thanks everyone, But I trullythink that there are people out there that are willing to allow me to try their chastity device. I know that if I had an extra once I would allow a new person to try it to see if it is for them before spending alot of money.

    I hope that there is someone out there that can help me

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    Unfortunately I think everyone in chastity thinks the same way "I had to buy my way through an army of devices... why shouldn't you!"

    Possibly selfish, but that's the way it is! :Locker:
     
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    even if i had an extra i do not think i would loan it out to some stranger maybe a close friend i may sell it to some stranger at a lower price but never loan it, its a health risk and really expensive item to get and if the stranger never returned it i would go on a hunt, so yea.. sorry and gl on your hunt
     
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    Sorry to see that people are not trusting of others. If I loaned something to someone I would think that the respect would be there anr when the time to return it you would. I am still a firm beleaver that there is someone that can help me try chastity before I have to buy a devise.

    Again anyone out there that is willing to allow me to try chastity let me know

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    I've lost track of the amount of things which have now been "stolen" from me under the premise of good faith!

    Good luck though, and top marks for persistence. :Locker: :butterfly:
     
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    I still think that there is someone who can help me out. Please allow me to experiance what chastity is all about.

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    Still waiting for someone to help me Ple ase someone plut me in chastity
     
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    This is the oddest thread I think I have ever seen on the mansion.

    Dude can I borrow your tooth brush!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Sure if you want to and I think that you need to be a bit nicer, If you do not have anything nice to say then do not say anything.

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    I think the longer this thread goes on, the funnier it gets. Or am I just cruel?

    Kid, go and pay for a device. No one will lend you an expensive device that they have personally suffered in. The financial outlay, the frustration and dedication required to make it work is part of the chastity process. Consider it a labour of love.


    Or keep posting and making me laugh.
     
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    I don't think anyone is being mean rbrboyftlauderdale, I just think they are really trying hard to impress on you how unlikely this is to happen.

    People are very attached (pun intended) to their devices.

    It's a very emotional thing as well as a money thing.

    The trauma it takes to find the right device, the right fit....

    Whilst I can see that you would say "then they should understand my plight" we've all been there, we've all spent hundreds of pounds/dollars.

    No-one gave any of us a hand up.

    My only suggestion really is to check out the For Sale/Exchange forum, or look on eBay.

    Don't take it personally. :HappyDay:
     
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    I will lend you my device!!! But I will need to get a 1000$ non refundable deposit first, after that it is yours to play with as you like, but you can only borrow it for 3 weeks. Any questions ask away
     
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    Thanks everyone for the reply's and advise. I guess that I will have to start to save some $$$ for the right chastity device. Also Lexora if I had 1000.00 I would nopt be asking for help in this forum but thatnks anyway

    Still dreaming that there is someone that can help me out

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    lol worth a try :)

    Your dream will be hard to get to unless you can find someone who stopped chastity >< but most people do not stop once they start it's kinda like pringles
     
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    I am still a firm beleaver that someone will be able to help me out.

    Let me know if anyone can help me out!


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    Here's a cheap CB-3000 on eBay right now, right now it's only $40.00
    CB3000

    If you want a try before you buy option, schedule a date with a Dom. She can lock you up and take you money.
     
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    Yes, I guess it can be hard for somebody who has not yet tried chastity to imagine how personally attached we get to our chastity devices.

    For example I just developed a sore spot trying out a new security insert, and it feels horrible that I am forced to stay out of chastity for a few days until it heals.

    And even though I have an extra device, there is no way I would part with it even for a minute. I want it available all the time as a fallback in case something happens to my current device.

    I still hope that rbrboyftlauderdale will find somebody who is willing to lend him a device, but I think it is unlikely. His best bet at saving a few $$$ is probably to find somebody who purchased a good low-cost device like a cb3000 or cb6000 that did not fit, and is willing to sell it second-hand at a reduced price.
     
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    Thanks for the reply. An I hope that there is someone out there that will listen to you and help me out...

    Thanks again
     
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    This wasn't posted on April 1st?

    Dude.... are you serious?? Would you seriously want to wear a device that someone has leaked pre cum into, skin has flaked off into, maybe they even shot their load in it, and have pee'd into/through??? You're almost asking to use some other dudes condom..... I can't believe you think someone would lend you their device.. This HAS to be a wind up right?

    Honestly........ what are you on about???:confused0068:
     
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    Wow thaks for the post. Maby you should be a bit nicer before you decide to post something. And are you on something????? Seriously??????

    Still looking for someone to help me out

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    Start a poll...

    LOL!! rbrboyftlauderdale... Why don't you start a poll on here? It is very simple to do a poll when you make a new post. Ask the question, will you lend me a device and see what people vote? If you make the poll public, then the usernames of those that vote yes to lending a device will be visible to you and you could private message them and make the required arrangements? i believe there are in excess of 10,000 registered users on this site.

    However, in none of your posts in this thread that i can see have you put up any measurements or said how you would ensure the device would be returned. Nor have you said if you would pay packing and posting or given any confidence to a potential loaner that they would get the device back by offering some sureity or deposit? i think jamielynn has had the best idea, pay a Pro Domme/Dom to lock you up but i'm betting that will cost pretty much the same as buying a device anyway. (Any Pro Dommes/Doms care to suggest a likely cost for that?)

    Mature metal sends out sizing rings for a deposit ($150.00 i think?) which then gets deducted off the bill if you buy, or refunded if you return the rings. That way you will get the sizes right and a device that should be tailor made for you.
     
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