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    I have a frustration over my chastity cage
    My cage fits like a glove but when i wear my rings they either fal off quickly like 10 sec just hanging but if i go smaller rings i get cold balls
    I need a solution or i wil just cut off the shaft
    Getting frustrated not in the way i wanna
     
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    Also to answer question i have tryd around 8 difrent cages and a belt this one is the most comfortable i found
    My expierence with cb6000 was good but the glue holding the cage gave away and was pinshing my skin
     
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    You aren't giving us that much info about the cage and ring sizes. Can you tell us the ring sizes you have and link the model of the device you purchased?

    Also, if you are having issues with the ring... like how it feels over time... try building up time with it... 1 hour, next day 2 hours, etc... maybe taking a break for a day to relief the feeling of the ring....
     
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    Welcome to our community. I think you'll find people who can give you good advice here. Good luck and don't get frustrated.
     
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    https://www.misterb.com/en/bon4m-stainless-steel-chastity-cage-large-565172

    Is the cage and i take the ring size1,83 inch from the other bon4 micro becaus these are less heavy and more secure
     
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    Damn that is a lot of money for that device... it doesn't even say what type of stainless steel it is made off...

    But most people will be able to fit into that ring that is close to 1.75 inches. I would just work your way up time wise with it to be honest... Maybe even do something like this....

    Day 1: 1 hour
    Day 2: break
    Day 3: 1 hour
    Day 4: 2 hours
    Day 5: Break
    Day 6: 2 hours
    Day 7: 4 hours
    Day 8: Break
    Day 9: 4 hours
    Day 10: 8 hours
    Day 11: break
    Day 12: 8 hours
    Day 13: 16 hours
    Day 14: break
    Day 15: Just wear through sleeping
    Day 16: 8 hours before bed, and sleeping
    Day 17: break
    Day 18: Wear all day and sleep

    See how it goes... don't rush things if it is hurting... you could also use a good water based lube or Vaseline where the ring is hurting.
     
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    Already tried that either it falls off or i go cold balls and i mean verry cold
    I do the finger test and i get 4 fingers past the knuckle
    I have fidged around with spacers
    I have even worn a bigger cage or a smaller one but the big one falls directly off and smaller wil make veins pop out of my red balls that looks verry unhealthy and painfull even 1 mm size bigger or smaller so its not the cage
    I have tryd belts but you get either cuts or blisters of the movement against my flesh
    I have tried difrent types if materials rubber silicone ect give burns plastic is always either glued or molted toghether giving a pinching sensation

    there is always skin under my balsack that i can pull under through the ring and it stays for couple of seconds and then shifts away i tryd all with that stupid skin
     
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    Im doing chastity for about 9 years
    The longest was cb6000 but eventually its glue on the underside of the device gave a away and started pinching my skin open so i removed it and had it repaired but they said that you cant have it on for to long becaus the same problem would repeat thats why i transfers over to bon4 metal same spacer lenght
    Now im just desperate and highly frustrated either this cage wil work or i wil just surgicly remove the shaft of the penis so i can stay horny that way
     
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    Do you pul youre foreskin backward or puls the cage just on not caring about foreskin or pull all foreskin to the front

    i have tryd the first two and got cuts and bruises the third doesnt seem good becaus of stink and filth it can build up

    stoo trying to bs me unless you know somthing im trying for 8 years of finding a replacment for cb6000 bon4 as can be seen in previous post
     
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    I don't think anyone is trying to BS you.
     
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    Had a couple in the past saying that the cb6000 could be worn permanently
    This is why im just aggitated
     
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    Maby cutting of my foreskin would help
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion, check out cherrykeeper.com
     
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    The Cherry Keeper to host an option called "The Head Lock" on 99% of their devices. What it does it form a small ring inside the cage to help the head of the penis to slip out. It really isn't something that is making the device "unbeatable" but if you are looking for something to keep your head at the end of the cage... this might work.

    Also the Cherry Keeper models are 100% hypoallergenic plastic material that you can match any cage, any ring, and even get a mod for a padlock if you don't like the integrated lock.

    I just don't like plastic cages X_x
     
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    I have only bad expierences with plastic chastitys im not in search of a new one the one that i have fits fine its just my foreskin gets injured pretty bad

    also those cages cant be worn whilest showering bon4 has waterproofed lock
     
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    I just spent sometime looking at the cherry keeper website. Cool products, look like unique designs. And I’ve gotta say the permalocker looks exquisitely delicious (let your brain wander on the only way out is to actually have to destroy the cage.....how wonderful!)

    It says on the site that JosieLynn isn’t taking new custom orders after July 14th, is that a temporary thing or is she not doing it anymore?
    Anyone know?

    My gorgeous keyholder’s ultimate cage (even prior to hearing about this product) is the headlock design, that never has to come (i.e. travel) that has a row of ‘shark’s teeth’ to remind me I’m not allowed to get hard....and then of course she’ll do everything she can to ensure she gets me too excited.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion, Puppytoyhaba!

    I used the forum's search function to do some hunting and found three threads in which where was discussion of a user with a foreskin who'd worn a BON4M:


    I suggest either following up on these threads with your questions, or individually contacting the relevant posters and asking them about your specific situation.

    Good luck!
     
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    On my side, if it helps, either for the Bon4 and CB6000s I use a belt or a lace that goes around my back and witch is attached to the ring on both side. It helps it to stay in place.

    And welcome here
     
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    This time I want to actually welcome you to CM.

    I’m sorry to hear about your cage issues. I have bought at least a dozen different cages, so I can feel your pain (and frustration). I’m going to suggest one other thing to look at, the gap. The JailBird I am currently wearing and have been wearing only removed once in the last 4 months, when I first got it I couldn’t wear it. The gap was too tight and causing so many issues particularly with blood flow to my balls. So (don’t tell mature metal) I modified my cage and increased the gap. Now I actually use the cage as constructed and designed, but it took me a while to get there.

    The lesson - Don’t give up! Explore experiment and try different configurations and cages

    it’s an amazing journey.
     
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    It isnt the gap ive tried around and got the same isseus
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    I pull it entire backwards the foreskin and deu to pressure the foreskin gets cuts
    I pull it through the cage forwards but the cage itself is then to small and the pressure allows my skin to poke through making blisters this is without pulling it over the last bit becaus of health and keeping it clean
     
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    Yea i tryd those threads but nothing really helps my isseu of my skin i have alot of foreskin enough to set a second penis inside
     
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    The problem is that without all my exes foreskin i would fit in a small but with this exes foreskin i fit barely inside a large
     
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    I just ordered a cherry keeper it will be finished being built on the 6th of August
     
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    IyI don't know your anatomy but, from your description, I would say that you have a tight ball sack.
    In this sense I would recommend that you start by wearing only cock rings for some time.
    Get used to have your balls separated from your body and progress to smaller rings.
    When you feel comfortable with the ring (having erections and going through the day, sleeping, etc., Start introducing the cage.
    Many men need to have their balls slightly stretched before they are able to wear a ball trap device.
     
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    Did you contact those particular users who have similar issues and talk to them with your specific questions?
     
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