I am hoping to talk to someone who has had experience with frenum piercing secured chastity devices. I don't yet have a piercing. Any piercings at all actually or tattoos for that matter and I have been seriously considering for some time now to get a frenum piercing purely for securing a chastity device. After lots of trial and error and research I've come to the determination that for chastity to work a piercing is required. I had given up on the idea when I thought the PA was the only option because of the possibility of having urination inconveniences for the rest of my life. Also a lot of people say that the will continue to stretch and won't close completely if I decide one day I don't want the piercing anymore. To be fair I do also understand that there are some benefits to the PA over the frenum but I can't get past the aforementioned downsides. I would like to talk to someone who has had frenum piercing chastity about: 1. healing process 2. The "seasoning" of the piercing (toughening over time) 3. wanted and unwanted stretching of the piercing 4. What is the ability of the piercing to carry weight. I'd like to get a chastity tube but I am worried about the piercing baring the weight. I've heard of snug fit ones that rely on friction against the penis to carry the majority of the weight. 5. What is the potential of tearing the piercing and migration 6. After the piercing is healed how often do I need to remove my cage to clean inside the piercing Also I am considering getting a security screw based device. I understand they are more difficult to remove. I want the real thing. Not play chastity. I need help. Please spare a moment
I had mine done well over a decade ago. When it was done it was said healing was six weeks, but we were having sex within 5 days. I have no idea since we only started chastity a few years ago. There is no stretching, it started at 2mm and has remained at 2mm. I wouldn't put any weight on it. The BAWR cage I have fits very snuggly and doesn't put any weight on the piercing. I have no idea, nothing has changed with it in over a decade. I have never removed the piercing for cleaning, and the longest I have gone without the key used is 4 months. A power shower and q-tips (ear buds) does great. The sking moves around on the piercing so no removal needed. Wearing a piercing attached cage certainly changes the feeling of being caged, it definitely makes it more real.
I have both a PA and Frenum piercings. I have worn an Evotion Bijou for years that incorporates both piercings . I can wear the Bijou indefinitely. Sufficient cleaning can be accomplished with a hand held shower head set on a pulsed massage setting. I recall the frenum taking a a month or two to heal. It then took a very long time ( perhaps a year) to stretch it up to thicker gauges starting with a 14 ga. and stretching to a 6 gauge. I have never had any issues with migration. Having said that, I have always worn chastity devices made of light weight plastics. I did make the mistake of purchasing a Lori tube which was very heavy and put too much strain on my PA. What a waist of money! If you stick with a lightweight snug fitting device with at least an 8 gauge piercing , it should suffice, IMHO. The PA piercing healed much faster and stretch easier and faster compa
Welcome. I waited years to get pierced because of fear of the PA. Last year I finally went and had it done. Omg my only regret now is waiting so long. The piercing wasn’t bad. Healing wasn’t bad. Minor annoying at times but nothing horrible. Peeing hasn’t been bad. It just takes thinking and making sure you are aware of the holes and possible dribble. Your jewelry determines how much you leak, dribble or spray. I don’t know much about the Frenum piercing except for the research I did. My understanding it isn’t that painful. It can be secure but isn’t as secure as the PA. I guess based on my experience and choice I’d say reconsider the PA. Then decide based on research and deep thought. Either way I say good luck and hope you keep us updated on your journey.
It looks like this, except the newer one has two fixings to the cage: https://badassworkroom.com/collections/custom-chastity-cage/products/ba-28f It feels like any other cage. I don't feel the piercing since I have had it for a long time, and it doesn't cause me any discomfort.