Help needed. I'm at a loss.

Discussion in 'Journals and blogs' started by Redhead's Hubby, Jan 19, 2017.

Random Thread
  1. Redhead's Hubby
    Offline

    Redhead's Hubby Active member

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2016
    Messages:
    75
    Likes Received:
    139
    Trophy Points:
    43
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:07 AM
    A couple weeks ago I woke up one day totally disinterested in anything sexual. I can't really explain it. My wife/Mistress is amazing with playing into my fetishes and keeping me locked. We've had tons of fun with T&D, feminization, SPH ... the list goes on. In the recent past she would make me so drippy in my cage I would go into subspace easily. Now, nothing. We agreed to let me have a PIV orgasm a about a week ago to see if things reset. My last full orgasm was back in October. So far still the same issue. No interest in any of it. I still wear my cage as ordered by her hoping I'll find my place again.
    Has anyone else been though anything like this? Any advice is very welcome.
     
  2. Lockedwithlove
    Offline

    Lockedwithlove I am my Queen's toy

    Joined:
    Jan 18, 2016
    Messages:
    564
    Likes Received:
    543
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Idaho
    Local Time:
    10:07 AM
    since it's been a couple of weeks since you've felt like this maybe you should go see your doctor. If you've been feeling lethargic or tired lately your testosterone levels may have gone down decreasing your sexual appetite. Worth looking into anyway, it's strange that overnight things just seemed to "turn off" for you.
     
    traveler likes this.
  3. Wendygirl
    Offline

    Wendygirl To offer advice and keep CM safe and welcoming

    Joined:
    Jul 31, 2013
    Messages:
    3,360
    Likes Received:
    2,462
    Trophy Points:
    153
    Gender:
    Female
    Occupation:
    gardener
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    London
    Local Time:
    5:07 PM
    Yep total loss of libedo especially if it's totally out of the normal is some thing that should be investigated.

    Xx Wendy
     
  4. Corsetbob
    Offline

    Corsetbob Active member

    Joined:
    Dec 31, 2016
    Messages:
    77
    Likes Received:
    74
    Trophy Points:
    38
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Electronic Engineer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK Northants
    Local Time:
    5:07 PM
    Yes go to doctor get yourself tested for both testosterone and vitamin deficiency, I think its vitamin D deficiency that causes the lethargic feelings also known as SAD disorder common in winter months.
     
  5. Redhead's Hubby
    Offline

    Redhead's Hubby Active member

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2016
    Messages:
    75
    Likes Received:
    139
    Trophy Points:
    43
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:07 AM
    Thanks all for the input. I am on T therapy and a couple months ago dropped the dosage. I really hope that's it and from what you're saying I have all of those symptoms. I'll get the dosages increased. I'll get my vitamin D checked as well.
     
  6. Vinny
    Offline

    Vinny Locked up again. Starting year 6.

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2014
    Messages:
    1,879
    Likes Received:
    1,668
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Local Time:
    12:07 PM
    I am that state of mind now. I told my wife it was OK if we did not have any sex this week. In fact I have not been in the mood for the last two weeks and only started to lock up again yesterday just in case. I sometimes lose interest in sex but usually after a few months I get horny again.
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice