My husband and I have always had a crap sex life which is completely down to me and my low sex drive. We have a great relationship, we are open and honest and can talk about anything. We have been together for 17 years and all is great apart from the non existent sex life. He started pleasing himself and ended up doing it so much that he couldn't get or lost his erection when we did have sex. He discovered chastity about a year ago and we have been trying on and off ever since. The downfall is always that he ends up locked away for weeks at a time with no input or effort from me. He is always very patient and tries not to pressure me but he will eventually say that he needs to get out and I just hand him the key rather than suggest anything else. I am very self conscious and not at all body confident. I suffer from anxiety and depression and take medication for it as well as the contraceptive pill and have read that these can make things worse so i came off the pill and started taking a herbal energy booster and libido enhancer but despite having more energy I still have no sex drive. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions for anything else that I can do/take to help please?