Hi, Newcomer to this. Just discovered chastity and am currently experimenting. seem to be lucky in finding a device that works for me. Comfortable and stops complete erection. Have been locked for 10 days now 24/7. Now need to broach the subject with the wife !!
Wow, you're doing better than me; I started 2 weeks ago, but burning sensations/ball rash keeps me from going 24hrs a day.....though it is getting better.
Welcome to our community and I hope you enjoy being part of it. Look around, there are several threads about how to approach subject with the wife, hope they provide you with some good ideas. Enjoy,
Hi and welcome. I have to ask how you have hidden your cage from your wife for 10 days? Surely she would have noticed? Good luck with that conversation!
She is away at the moment whichis why I thought I'd try out a device, see how it felt etc. Not back for another couple of weeks. The device ia actually pretty discreet, wearing it under fairly tight clothing it isn't noticeable..
I started in April and had several false starts with various issues, chafing being one, I stopped for a couple of weeks, tried again and - Eureka !.
I would look under female led relationships and chastity in vanilla life. They both have threads that deal with how you introduce idea to wife.
Well, wife has been home now for a couple of weeks and I eventually broached the subject. It went better than expected and she is going to be my keyholder. It now starts for real. Given her fairly low sex drive I am expecting to be locked for a while. Longest I've done so dar is 21 days self locked..