I'm Peter from the Netherlands, and have been lurking on the site for a two week already. So today I setup an account because for me the 'journey' has started. Yesterday I got my Chinese cage and have been wearing it now for 30+ hours. I found that my relation with my wife both sexual and personal was not what it should be. So a few weeks ago I read up on FLR relationships and started doing more of an effort to do chores around the house and please her. As part of FLR I ran into chastity and what I have read is that in a lot of occasions is a good thing for the relation 'forcing' the male in a less dominant role. Making the interactions between partners better. So I really hope this would be something for us as well. Only thing is that I showed my cage this morning to my wife and currently she is a little puzzled what to do. As male I'm of course also interested in the kink side of it. teasing and frustrating myself to the edge. Anyway this was my Hello, looking forward to read more here and perhaps also get a better picture what I really want.