I don’t think I have ever written an introduction so I thought I’d do one now. Despite what others think, I am not some kind of professional Mistress. I have a good career and a degree from ********* University (I only mention this so people do not get the impression I am some kind of heel wearing bimbo ) I’m 24, single (not looking!), and I've always been dominant. This does not mean I am into whipping, pegging and humiliating. It means I enjoy controlling men and making them do my bidding, whatever that may be. My style of dominance is not traditional, I rarely have to do anything dominant, men do what I want without that. I am not a man hater, I'm not mean or cruel to my subs, I see them as friends who know their place. I’m a self confessed geek and interested in all things sci fi, star wars, dr who, the walking dead etc. I also love computers, gadgets and technology. I'm quite interested in photography and I have gained a big following on fetish sites over the last few years, mainly from my cosplay photos. It’s great fun, I'm having a splendid adventure I stumbled onto chastity about 4 years ago, I had never heard of it until I joined a fetish site and started getting lots of messages from men saying “I’ll do whatever you want if you hold the keys to my cock!”. That hasn’t quite held true, most only want me to do what THEY want. I’m not one of those who lives and breathes chastity, much like most wives of members here I merely see it as a tool for making men more useful to me. I currently hold the keys of 2 online subs and I have a real life older sub (not in chastity) who does things for me, running errands, shopping, driving etc. Nothing sexual at all, serving is it's own reward. I’m not here seeking keys or subs, I like the idea of making chastity more mainstream. I think a lot of vanilla women would be into it if they knew the benefits of making their partners more obedient.