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Discussion in 'The Foyer' started by Mistress Lucy, Sep 10, 2017.

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    #1 Mistress Lucy, Sep 10, 2017
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    I don’t think I have ever written an introduction so I thought I’d do one now.

    Despite what others think, I am not some kind of professional Mistress. I have a good career and a degree from ********* University (I only mention this so people do not get the impression I am some kind of heel wearing bimbo :) )

    I’m 24, single (not looking!), and I've always been dominant. This does not mean I am into whipping, pegging and humiliating. It means I enjoy controlling men and making them do my bidding, whatever that may be. My style of dominance is not traditional, I rarely have to do anything dominant, men do what I want without that. I am not a man hater, I'm not mean or cruel to my subs, I see them as friends who know their place. :)

    I’m a self confessed geek and interested in all things sci fi, star wars, dr who, the walking dead etc. I also love computers, gadgets and technology. I'm quite interested in photography and I have gained a big following on fetish sites over the last few years, mainly from my cosplay photos. It’s great fun, I'm having a splendid adventure :)

    I stumbled onto chastity about 4 years ago, I had never heard of it until I joined a fetish site and started getting lots of messages from men saying “I’ll do whatever you want if you hold the keys to my cock!”. That hasn’t quite held true, most only want me to do what THEY want. I’m not one of those who lives and breathes chastity, much like most wives of members here I merely see it as a tool for making men more useful to me.

    I currently hold the keys of 2 online subs and I have a real life older sub (not in chastity) who does things for me, running errands, shopping, driving etc. Nothing sexual at all, serving is it's own reward.

    I’m not here seeking keys or subs, I like the idea of making chastity more mainstream. I think a lot of vanilla women would be into it if they knew the benefits of making their partners more obedient.
     
  2. Given how weird it must have been to get those early requests to lock up someone's penis, and the obvious way they actually wanted to make you do what they wanted than the other way around, what made you continue to explore male chastity? Given other topics being discussed about how we can encourage more women into this lifestyle what made you not feel like running into the hills wondering why men are so disgusting?
     
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    Well the first message I usually get is something like, "Hello, I would love to serve you", what they really mean is they want me to serve their fetishes and fantasies.

    But out of thousands I met a few who actually meant it.
     
  4. I would never submit to someone I didn't have a long term relationship and trust with.

    Glad you found your "way" so early in life.
     
  5. Mistress Lucy

    Lovely to have an introduction and a little bit of history.

    Thank you

    Sillymaid
     
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  6. Thanks for the share Mistress Lucy,

    It's really fun seeing people having same interests as me and my wife, but as what Sublifter said, I am only comfortable with a thought of submitting to someone who I trust,and who I know for long time,in this case my wife someone who I share my whole life with.

    Regards.
     
  7. please @Mistress Lucy@Mistress Lucy curtsy what has happen to all them men that You send a pinky key to then. Have they all gone.
     
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    They all ran away with their tails between their legs when they realised it wasn't like their fantasy :)
     
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  9. Regarding your initial post, there is no need to be coy about telling us which university you attended. I went to Imperial College but I don't think anyone could identify me from that information.
     
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    Well that was quite some time ago, not recently, and you don't have any photos here :)
     
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  11. We're all pretty weird here, at least by "normal" people's standards. Glad to hear your story.
     
  12. Thanks for the look into who you really are. It's nice when people aren't scared to just be themselves.
     
  13. @Mistress Lucy@Mistress Lucy please, thank You for ansering my question. and men like them don't diserve having a Mistress.
     
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  14. Hello Mistress Lucy,
    I have always noticed your presence here at CM, but have never had the opportunity to know you or speak with you. You are clearly a strong, attractive, and intelligent woman. Thank you for introducing yourself the way you did. It is a pleasure to read your post. Wish you all the best, and hope to hear more from you.
     
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    You are right Jemima, but most don't want a Mistress, they just want someone to hold their key, but they are not honest about it.
     
  16. well i think then that they are very very silly men Mistress.
     
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