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    Hi everyone,
    My wife and I recently agreed to lead a FLR. We're both experienced kinkster so this is bout to be quite a journey. I'm psyched to have somewhere to share it and maybe vent. Nice to have a place to get some information and support. Hope to make some friends too :)
     
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    Welcome to you and your wife. This is a great like minded community for support. Looking forward to hearing more from you about your mutual adventure.
     
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    Welcome, Nuclearnomad, enjoy your journey. Please post to tell us about how you arrived at this point.
     
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    Welcome to the both of you!
     
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    Welcome and wish you both the best.
     
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    Welcome and be our guest for exploring CM.
     
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    Nuclearnomad New member

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    Well, My Wife and I have been together ten years. We started kinky and never slowed down, always trying new things and adding to the toy selection. We switched quite a lot but I was the Dominant for the majority of the time. Over the past couple of years our sex life has slowed down a bit. This was due to many factors, just life getting in the way. During this period I developed unhealthy masturbation tendencies
    I was wasting a gratuitous amount of time and sexual energy, it showed, I didn't see it at first. At the beginning of October we were having a talk and she brought up a night when I stayed up after she went to bed and surfed porn until late morning, she wondered why I wasn't in bed all night and checked the history. This was the moment I realized I had a problem and it was affecting my relationship. I tell my wife I'm addicted to porn/jerkin' it. She was supportive and I told her I was going to try and stop porning. Later that day she sends me a text.
    Now earlier I said I spend the majority of the time on the D side of D/s but I'd spent plenty of time at the bottom. I've been through a couple chastity cages, she learned how to use rope, I could go on. I had asked if she wanted to do something a little longer term than just a few days with her on top. She wasn't enthusiastic but time changes people. Her text suggested trying a female led relationship, she expressed to me that she doesn't feel sub like she used to and she thinks she could give it a go. I agreed that we could both benefit and after a couple days cool off and some negotiating we started down the way, level 3.1-ish? :)
    So now I'm detoxing, on week three somewhere I think, no porn. I invited her to watch me delete The Folder. She didn't tell me to but it was the first logical step. She happily watched me recycle almost half a terabyte of gross. I've been having mood swings but as of the last few days they're lighter and shorter. It's freaky how I have craves for it when its... just visual media. Some times the jones are so strong, I'll start planning how I'll get away with it before I stop the train of thought and feel wretched about myself.
    I'm gonna give her everything and we're going to kick some ass at life. I'll be her tool because she knows how to use me. She'll lead and I'll follow.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Howdy and welcome!

    It is different for me, I end up spending more time here, looking at tumblr, fetlife, etc because now I don’t ave a natural stopping point...orgasm. Now I just look, read, and watch till I need to stop. Before, I would look at vids, finish, and go about my day. Now I wander aimlessly through the depths.

    Happy to hear you two kinksters are well on your way to a new adventure.

    Good luck
     
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