Hi everyone. My fiancé and I are new to the chastity lifestyle. I am 25 and she is 26. We have been together for 8 and a half years now. We have a house together that we moved into last summer. We just recently got engaged and plan to get married in 2018. We certainly aren't a vanilla couple as we regularly use bondage in our sexual repertoire. We both have submissive and dominant tendencies. She likes to be dominant most of the time though. One reason we decided to start incorporating chastity in our lives is trust. With a chastity device we will be able to keep myself in check regarding masturbation. We have agreed that our sexual releases should be at the hands of the other. Masturbation in our relationship is selfish since we have each other. With that in mind I thought of a chastity device as a solution. I obtained a Rubber Buckling Cock Cage Chastity Device just last week. Since then we have read articles together about chastity and how to incorporate it in our lives. We looked at benefits, different types, how to start out, and problems to look out for with chastity. Last night was our first attempt at locking me up. I was semi hard to start out so, to get me less excited, she talked about her job while I listened. Once I was flaccid enough we got the device on. She had me locked up for about 4 hours while we watched TV together. Every once in a while she asked if I was OK and if I was comfortable to make sure nothing was wrong. Before we went to bed she unlocked me and we checked for marks or bruises. The next day we will try locking me up again will be Saturday night due to our work schedules. The device itself is pretty heavy so it pulled my balls down a bit. I wasn't able to fill the whole device either. There was a little pinching sometimes but not very often. Now that we know there are plastic devices out there we may look into getting one of those in the future. She really likes seeing me locked up and I enjoyed her locking me up. Thanks for reading.