OK... 50 something Canadian guy. Into chastity off and on since the early 2000's. Have a very understanding, somewhat kinky wife, and lots of friends from the kink community who understand and encourage. More recently we got more serious about chastity and long term denial. Keyholding is split between my wife, and one of our best friends, who is kinky, and enjoys having a good friend become a chaste man-servant/handy-man/minion/kink partner. Good cop/Bad cop in a way. I work at home, and am always locked at home. All things intimate or kinky are done locked, no release. Unlocked for cleaning, and when being in chastity outside the home is impractical....Sports, family stuff, motorcycle, tight jeans.....etc. that's pretty much me/us. Chastity is more behaviour modification based than rules and punishments. Semi-poly, kinky, chaste, denied, but usually just normal. We do normal stuff and hang out. Chastity is just part of daily life at this point. No big scenes or 3 ways or that stuff. Pretty boring most of the time!