Hello, I'm new here. Started my new life in chaste on April 17th at 6:30 pm. Long overdue!

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  1. Chaste Forever
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    Hello, Just joined. Looks like a wide variety of people on here! I just became chaste on Tues. April 17th. Masturbation and erection control issues mostly. We had a cage malfunction Saturday night, so I was allowed to sleep with it off. Bad idea. I was caught trying to masturbate and worse yet, lied about it. I confessed because I felt so bad about it. Very disrespectful to my wife. I told her I would deserve any punishment she wants but honestly, I'm so ashamed of myself it feels like punishment enough. I know ti isn't. Still waiting to see what my punishment may be. What makes it worse, is she decided to let me penetrate her after I had lied, and I didn't confess till the morning.
    I fixed/adjusted the cage and my little dick is back where it belongs. Probably for quite some time.
    On an unrelated note, we know that prostate milking is necessary for for good prostate health, but are penile stimulation orgasms necessary for good male health?
    Thank you for any input on this.
     
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    Hi @Chaste Forever

    Welcome to the Mansion. It seems like you are off to a bit of a shaky start. It is one thing to mess up, but you only compound things if you don't fess up in a timely manner.

    There are lots of people with different experiences on here. Have a look around and see what interests you. Here is a link to one thread that might be of more than a little bit of interest to you
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/it-was-only-one-wank.26281/

    Was it you or your wife that introduced chastity to your relationship? Irrespective of any punishments you receive, you will need to be on your best behaviour to re-establish trust with your wife about chastity. But don't let your shaky start put you off chastity. Many members here will tell you of the benefits that both partners can get from chastity (and there are quite a few stories in the journals/blog section of the Mansion).

    Good luck for your journey.
     
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    A shaky start indeed. It was I that volunteered to be chaste as I have for many years struggled with masturbation in our marriage, knowing my wife allowed it but really wished I would not do it. Once our children were all off to lives of their own I started to masturbate more than usual. My wife told me she didn't appreciate it as she felt disrespected and belittled by it. She has never denied me of sex and we actually have a very active sex life ( I am cuckold, we have a Bull and we both love it)! I love her and I am determined to honor her wishes. She has already assured me that this is just a bump in the road for us and my chastity will continue as a tool to help assure she will be honored and respected in the same manner as she has ALWAYS done for me (married 28 years). Thank you for your words of excellent advice.
     
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    If you are so determined to respect her wishes, why do you need a cage?
    Yes, I know, men are weak and when they say they respect women, they just can't make it alone without a mechanical help. Few can manage it on the honor system, I truly appreciate those!
     
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    Well done for starting your journey, although a bit more focus seems to be required!

    As for penile stimulation for good health, I do not believe there is any medical evidence for this. Sorry!
     
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    Well, eventually I may not need to be kept in chaste. It is our hope that we can ween me away from it, but at this point it has proven absolutely necessary. Also, there are other lesser reasons such as a public erection and the fact that I have always been a horny as hell slut , that I now find myself in chaste. Honestly, it didn't take long for me to understand that chastity really makes me feel calm and contented. I can concentrate much better at work and in daily life in general. This is why I choose the "chaste forever " screen name. Seems fitting for my journey ahead. Time will tell.
     
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    heloo @Chaste Forever and welcome to here. you been a bit naughty but least you told Her after a bit.
     
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    I think the big problem with the honour system is that most of us chaps just aren't really very honourable! That's why we need to be locked away!
     
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    Welcome and good luck...
     
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  11. Chaste Forever
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    Thank you all. wonderful and helpful insight. Thank you again.
     
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    Learn is right! I think I learned not to let the little head (and I do mean little) do the thinking for the big head! Time will tell on this. My beautiful wife and key holder is very supportive whilst remaining firm with me. Exactly what I need at this time I'm sure. On my way back to trust .
    Welcome to the site! I think it is amazing to have a site like this to come to and share info, stories and such and lend a few "words of wisdom/ personal opinions" or offer support. Every guy has their reason(s) for being in chastity and it's nice to get some support from others on a similar journey. Take care. CF.
     
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    True, you should honour your better half, especially if she is a "nicer" person than you! This is the case with Mrs Chaste and myself, I'm not a completely horrible person but she is definitely more caring all round than I am so she therefore deserves my respect and love because she is truly a better person than me. I always feel proud that she chose to be my wife and count myself very fortunate indeed. She does make me a better person and I am so happy to kept chaste by her and for her! The other side of the coin is that there are many things about me as a person that Mrs Chaste did and still does find attractive. A lot of my values and principals that she admires are part of the person she married. So whilst I have changed for (hopefully) the better I am still the person she married! Of course some of us are such complete dickheads that we need to be completely remodeled, and should be grateful that there are wonderful women who are prepared to do so! Glad I'm not one :). Hmmm!
     
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    So well said. Sage advice from all of you. My wife is by my side whenever I am on this site and she is even touched by the conversations. Thank you all!
     
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