Hello everyone. I would love to be a more active member of this forum, but find it difficult because my wife who I dearly love feels that our sex life is very private and not for sharing. We have been married since we were 19. And have three children who are in their teenage years, so finding any uninterrupted time can be a challenge it was easier when they were young. I have been a submissive since I can remember, and first tied myself up when I was about 8 years old, and that was 41 years ago. Chastity has been a major interest since I was in my early twenties and remains so, although to find a practical and workable solution has proven harder than you might think, but thats another post for another day. I still cant actually quite make sense of the fact that the one thing that makes me horniest is the desire to be unable to orgasm the number of times that thought has made me do that very thing its certainly a strange paradox. These days my chastity is mostly achieved without a device, I have somehow managed to condition myself to act as though I am wearing a device, and my wife has control of all of my orgasms, though sometimes I wish we had a better answer. Its not too hard for me though since we are fairly active and it is rare for me to go for more than a week, although my record of self control is three weeks. I tend to lurk a lot, because most of the time, I have nothing much to add to the excellent posts that are made, and Im not sure that anyone would be all that interested in what a sub male of 49 has to say in any case there seem to be so many of us compared to the number of women who wish to be dominant. Im sure there must be a ratio of at least 20:1 which is a shame lol.