Hello! I am very interested in becoming a key holder. I’ve been in relationships in the past who would not experiment with the idea. They enjoyed being sexually controlled, but not to that extent. I look forward to learning more and exploring these forums!
You're in the right spot... Welcome! P.S. - It's usually the other way around on here. Men constantly endeavoring to get their significant other to take-up keyholding.
Hello, Welcome! also being a newbie to the forums. Interesting to read it this way around. I had always the feeling to see "desperate" man looking for this. (No offend). While I have learned that I would like to try a FLR I honestly don't understand the key holder thing yet. To be more precise: If the woman I'm in a FLR orders me to leave my sexual energy to (please) her and more important to create this strong focus serving her, I would try to do it and if I fail, I would feel very bad. Another thing which I don't get is that some man are looking forward reducing the "need" for sex. In my case I love the fact, that I am struggling if beeing in a FLR and my thoughts are focussed about her and to please her. But as mentioned in my introduction, this are all luxury problems as the hardest part seems to be, to find someone who is willing joining a FLR. So I guess, you'll have a great time and will please some man and more important (!) let them please you ;-) May I ask if you are also looking forward being in a FLR and becoming a key holder is just a part of it or is it really the key holder thing itself? Piet
Welcome! I am a bit new to chastity, and have had some good experiences and some not so good ones. I have found that, for me, I need to have some "connection" with my key holder. When there is that connection, I find I get a lot of satisfaction from serving her and performing various tasks requested by her. I have found that a bonding develops, which is pretty strong. None of this happens for me when the connection is not there, and chastity becomes boring chore.
Welcome and salutations! There must be plenty of nutmeggers who'd want to jump at the opportunity. I'm sure if you've got any particular questions, someone knowledgeable would be happy to try and help.
Welcome sounds great you want to become a keyholder. What made you discover it and made you consider it?
Welcome to our home, Miss Claudia. Please, make yourself comfortable. Would you like some wine, perhaps?
Welcome. My KH/Wife/Goddess and I are also in CT. There are some munches/societies in CT that we could point you towards if you are interested. You will be swamped with people who will want you to hold their keys though! I already have a perfect KH.
I'd guess your private messages are blowing up right about now There's probably tons of interest here for long distance. In person may be trickier. I wish you the best in your journey. J