Hi everyone, My name is Festen. I'm a 50 year old male who just started with chastity play. I've been submissive and played D/s games since my 20's, but chastity was always a hard limit. I played a lot with tease and denial, but never went so far as a cage. I had a Mistress who I only saw on weekends, and remained "chaste by will", I guess you could say in between seeing her. I think I had a deep fear of being locked with no contact, or that one would disappear with the key. My wife/Mistress has always wanted to explore chastity, but it was always a hard limit. through discussion and ever increasing trust, I finally decided to take the plunge...and here I am.
Congratulations on taking the plunge, @Festen, and welcome to CM! You’ll find plenty of advice here on any questions you might have, so take a look around and see what’s on offer.