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    My name is Miss Mari, and I have had my pet locked up for three weeks. He is a pain in the ass at times, but I love him spoiling me. I let him out after a couple of weeks, and I hated it. He did not treat me in the manner that I am becoming acustomed too.

    I plan on having him locked up for three months. Please let me know your stories, because I am new at this and do not have a lot of experience.

    Thank you,
    MM
     
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    Welcome to the site. There are plenty of diarys and such in the vault.
    I'm new to this site but I've been welcomed with one arms here.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion Miss Mari.

    Everyone is different, but lots of men are less obedient after an orgasm. This is definitely true in my case, although long periods between orgasms has really helped in the obedience department. Some women prefer to allow their man less orgasms than others do, and that is often best for everyone.

    Again, welcome Miss Mari!

    cindy
     
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    chastityslavejohn Mistress Irianna's pet

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    agreed...everyone is different. my orgasms have nothing to do with obedience or submission. first and foremost i am always a slave.
     
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    madamsboy Looking for a special female

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    pssst, it's open arms...

    :scared0016:
     
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    RubberDuckDK Mistress slave

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    Welcome Miss Mari! I hope you will find this forum as useful and welcoming as I have
     
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    won't rant about it but its something I can't help, I do it all the time, like my nick, I messed that up too. :sad0020:
     
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    Welcome Miss Mari
     
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    Welcome Miss Mari!! As a fellow Goddess here, feel free to PM me anytime. We can share secrets!
     
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    xcitex2 Back from the past!

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    Please don't worry about it. If we were all perfect here with our language, typing, and wording we would be professors, and then even they aren't perfect. Hell just read my posts, LOL they are all over the place LOL
     
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    xcitex2: I totally agree with you :))) Honest.. I too believe that it is not the form but the content that matters. Or else I would not be in an english forum myself..

    Its a very good thing to be all over the place. I know I am on a frequent basis.
     
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    Mistress Watchful Dont believe the hype ;oP

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    As friendly as that is, the rest of us will miss out on the learning experience!!! All Goddesses/Mistresses need to pool their resources so we can achieve complete World Domination! Lol

    :welcome: Miss Mari.

    3 months sounds like quite a stiff (pun intended) sentance for a first time lock up!

    You may want to have a think about what his specific kinks are (pain, bondage, servitude, femming) and use those to your advantage through ever increasing periods of lock up.

    To put him in for 3 months straight, cold turkey, with no tease/denial/communication is more likely to end up with one very pissed off and resentful submissive!

    What are YOUR main needs from this experience? Do you like to torture and humiliate? Would you like a sissy or do you prefer a more masculine type of slave?

    Please relax and enjoy the site. :CMrocks:
     
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    I didn't mean to offend, we all make typos, the question is whether we can laugh at them or not. Spellcheckers tend to make us lazy and we don't catch the correctly spelled incorrect word.

    sorry I didn't apologize sooner, I missed a bunch of posts because of time out issues with me being busy.
     
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    You are so right, MW. How silly of me!
     
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    Mistress Watchful thank you for your interest. I am looking for all the information I can get.

    My pet and I talk alot about the chastity and about what I want and about time frames. We have been together for 25 years so there are few secrets. I do not believe a lack of communication would ever be an issue. I let him out after 2 weeks and allowed him an orgasm. It required almost 2 weeks to get him back into the mind set I have come to enjoy.

    My pet gets excited by humiliation and enjoys some pain. He is most comfortable with me being an in charge bitch. I very much enjoy teasing him. He is much more sensitive to kissing and touching since being locked up. We still make love but he uses his mouth and a strap on. Our love making used to be 20 minutes now it can be well over an hour with multiple orgasms for me.

    I enjoy being spoiled and having everything done for me. One minute he will thank me for taking charge and being strong. He gets much more turned on and gets much more sensitive than ever before. The next minute he is begging to be released. I would like to put a stop to the begging! He does not get mad, just extremely horny. From your experiences will his high level of excitement remain constant or will it taper off?

    You mentioned 3 months maybe a bit too long to be locked up. What would you suggest? I enjoy getting spoiled. Since locking up my husband I get massages, foot rubs, sex, and all the attention I want. That was the main factor in the 3 month time frame.

    Thank you again for listening to me and I look forward to hearing from you and others on this site
    Miss Mari
     
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    chastityslavejohn Mistress Irianna's pet

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    my Mistress would never tolerate begging...i would be punished for sure.

    Miss Mari, excuse me for noticing but i see W/we are neighbors...welcome to the Mansion!
     
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    Well, to stop the begging you could always add days to his sentence!

    As for time lengths, it obviously varies from person to person, but I couldn't manage more than a month with my pet. That was early days though and I'm far more knowledgeable about how to "look after" him while he's in chastity now.

    The marble game is great if you're undecided about time lengths. It takes the decision away from you and adds an element of excitement on a daily basis. I think I'm going to fetch our marbles out and get pet back in chastity very soon...
     
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    Hello Slave John. It's good to see there are others with similar interests so close to home.

    Mistress Watchful thank you for replying again. I find the more attention I give to my pet while he is locked the better he is able to cope with it. I enjoy the way I am getting spoiled too much to let him out so soon. As long as he is happy he will remain locked. I can give him a special birthday present in Feb if he can last that long.
     
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    Miss Mari, are You familiar with the clubFEM chapter here in Tampa?
     
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    Hello Slave John
    I have not heard about Club Fem in Tampa. I can guess what it is but please fill me in on the details.
     
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    chastityslavejohn Mistress Irianna's pet

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    clubFEM Tampa had a website but it looks like it's down. here's a link for clubFEM South Florida:http://www.clubfemsouthflorida.com/

    clubFEM has a mingle every month or so at a vanilla location in Tampa Bay. this month it's at Alt Pathway, a Lifestyle restaurant/bar/ dungeon on December 12. once Y/you go to a mingle and E/everyone gets to know Y/you then Y/you get invited to the private parties, usually at a member's home. Mistress and i went to a mingle and one private party. it's a nice group of like minded folk...only Domme Females and male submissives allowed.
     
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    Thank you for the information. It's nice to talk with other like minded people but I am not looking to join a group at this time.
     
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    my wife keeps me lock for at least 2 months at time longest she keep me lock was 5 months you know after 5 months i behave very well and do as i am told
    and make sure im on hands knees in panties cleaning floor for her
     
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    madamsboy is not always right i agree spelling is not the idea here on this site
    welcom here is very nice and i had open arm to from all don't be shy hope this helps you. :butterfly: and madamsboy stop correcting spellings!:fighting0030:
     
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