I'm new to the site and wanted to say hi and make afew comments about me and my world. I got divorced 6 years ago and have been looking for a suitable significant other ever since. I have what I believe is a porn addiction and this was the main contributing factor in the decision my ex wife and I took in us seperating and subsequently divorcing. I only wish I had found out about chastity and the benefits of it whille we were still together. We occasionally played with mild bondage with me being a mostly sub but she wasn't really enthusiastic and she did it to please me but as I knew her heart wasn't in it I enjoyed it less and less untill for the last couple of years our marriage was virtually sex free hence my need to find diversion on the 'net. I'm sure, looking back that had she put me in chastity I would have remained a loyal, loving husband and would have enjoyed the constant "bondage" of the chastity device enough to keep me from temptation and enforce my natural submissive instincts allowing me to serve her in any way she desired. So to today and I guess I'm looking for any advice you guys and gals may have on how I can go about finding someone who wants to be a partner on an essentially equal footing but also hold the keys to my sexual desires. I don't want another same old vanilla relationship. Thanks for reading. Skin. PS I'm in Cheshire, England.