Hello everybody

The cage will change the whole dynamic of your life! You will soon get over your addiction and become much more in tune with Her needs and desires. Good hygiene takes a little effort, but is certainly manageable. The only way to know for sure it this is for you is to try it for a while. The most important part of chastity is clear and honest communication between both of you! If that communication is not possible between you, then, IMHO,. chastity will not work , long term!

 

What she said. I started off with Teasing and denial so I did not approach my wife with any devices. Just told her that in Tantric sex you have sex but no orgasm for awhile so when you do have it, it is very intense. I promised not to masturbate. We did that for about 2-3 months and my wife grew to like it. When she wanted me to go longer than two weeks between orgasms, that is when I told her that I do not trust myself on the honor system that long. I showed her a CB6000 online and she told me to get it if I wanted to. After I got it I wore is a few hours each day slowly increasing the hours until I was wearing it 24 hours. I was locking myself up and my wife did not get fully into key holding for about 60 months.

As above, you need a lot of communication. I have been into fetish sex for 47 years and great communication results in great sex. Up until this year, our fifth year, we were still review things and making adjustments until we are now in a place where we have little need to discuss it anymore. My wife is having some of the best orgasms of her life at the age of 65. Yesterday I thought she passed out by the sheer intensity of her orgasm. She blanked out for a few seconds and was dizzy. When she recovered I gave her another. My wife has shared me with other women, mostly her long time girlfriend for all but the last 7 years of our marriage. She is enjoying having sex focus on her and not sharing me anymore.

When you talk about a chastity belt do you mean an actual belt or a chastity cage. I wear I custom made cage and have not had any hygiene problems in 5 years. I use a squirt bottle of water and a swap to clean up. We installed a hand held shower head which does a great job during my daily showers. About once every two weeks I am unlocked for a thorough cleaning. There is no magic spell that is broken if you unlock when not practical. Chastity is not about being locked up. You can do chastity without any device. Those that focus on the device and trying to escape from it, rarely make in long.

You can masturbate while locked up in one of several ways so if you are thinking that being locked up will stop masturbation, you are mistaken. You have to want to be chaste and keep your work to your KH. If not, it will not work. Just hold a vibrator against your cage and you will orgasm. You can see this in many porn videos. A full belt may be fun but many of us gain and lose weight all the time so you will have to deal with that. Also you will have to be more fastidious about your hygiene. I have worn a Jailbird from Mature Metal for 4 years. What I like about it is its open design. Makes keeping clean easy and unlike those plastic or silicon devices, do not create a hothouse effect in the enclosed tube. Plus very easy to put on and take off. A full belt has your entire waist in which to create chafing and hot spots. However, get what makes you happy. Most of us go through several chastity devices before we find the ONE.

Plus what @DonnaSue said.

 

If you are asking about how it affects daily life, very little as long has you have a good device. Most are not visible at all I have been wearing mine nonstop and no one has noticed. Comfort there is little to no concern if it fits correctly, as Vinny says that can take time, you need to fine the correct one. Once you find the best fit there is really no limitations on what you can do. I run every other day up to 5 miles at a time before work, swimming and lifting has been no troubles.