So I live in America, I've been into BDSM for 6-7 years now, and I found male chastity around 4 years ago. I have a complicated dating status, and I'm a switch so sometimes I'm dom sometimes I'm sub, but most of my posts on here will be from the submissive side, and while I am a switch, I do prefer to be dominated by women I know and trust. I am in a complex relationship right now leading to myself having a Mistress that will occasionally switch, and two littles who are always on bottom. I'm an open book, ask and I shall tell. My Mistress is currently the woman I want to spend my life with and my best friend; as it stands, I will not be giving her both of my keys because she lives 2 hours away from my normal living quarters. (right now I'm back home visiting for a little bit) I look forward to the torment to come and I wish everyone happy holidays.
Welcome. and enjoy and I hope your Mistress will join too if she hasn't already. IMO your lockup length should be Her decision.