Hello everybody, My name is Michell, 50 years old, from Montreal Canada. I'm happy I have found this place. I just registered today and spent an hour or two reading different posts. I am glad to see quality information and relevant discussion that goes beyond fantasy land! My real life experience with a chastity device is limited. What led me to it was the realization that most if not all relationships I had involved letting the woman I loved be a leader of our life together. Although not formally assumed as D/s or FLR, I definitely had a supporting role. I live 9 years with a woman I dearly loved. We look like a 'normal' couple for the most part. Over these years, she had a few occasional lovers and made no real effort to hide it from me or her friends. They knew I did not wear the pants. She enjoyed this. The intimacy between us was according to her taste and left little place for what men usually wants with a woman. So, in a way, I felt I was in Chastity, so to speak. I have evolved through this and previous relationship too. I can recognize I long for a relationship led by my loved one. But I want it to be CONSCIOUS and loving. It's a different thing to consciously want something and to unconsciously drift toward it. So this is where I stand now.
hello @Michell and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well. you rigt say that it nice to be love even when you have been paddle for do something silly. cos then it not as bad.