I came across this site in searching male chastity and just felt the need to join. I'm very interested in this but as it stands now the wife isn't aware. I'm slowly but surely building up the nerve to bring it up.
Welcome Broaching the subject with ones Wife is indeed a gut wrenching conversation, my Wife was doubtful at first but come round to the opinion it was for the best. Our first device was purchased by myself & after self-locking I built up the courage to show Her the device in situ, it was a mixture of surprise, shock & intrigue she inspected it, it was after about 9 Months of exploration we decided to get a Stainless-Steel Device that we are currently using. I hope my experience gives you some reassurance. good luck & happy locking.
You know her best! But I recommend you have the conversation. The worst she can say is no! If however she agrees to give it go then who knows where your journey will take you!
Hello welcome, you'll love it here and if you've got any questions just ask or have a look through the past threads I'm pretty sure what you're thinking has been asked and advise given before
Also regarding your wife, we went down the denial route first. She told me i wasn't allowed to cum for at least 2 weeks. After a bit i suggested chastity while she was out so she knew i wasn't cheating
I gave Kitten a letter printed on and envelope containing the book "Male Chastity, A Guide For Keyholders" asking that she read it with an open mind and talk to me after she was finished. For days later we talked for over 2 ours and ordered our/her first cage. I self locked in front of her the day it arrived and was promptly informed that it locking and unlocking Her property was Her privilege. I was to handle Her property only in an emergency or with Her permission. Her property includes the cage and its contents.