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He wants to be locked.

Discussion in 'The Tower' started by cnlh, Jun 14, 2011.

  1. My boyfriend wants me to lock him in a Chastity Device. Honestly I don't want to because I think it is weird. He says he wants to stop masturbating so much and he thinks it will help our relationship. I was wanting to get some comments on if I should do this and why I should do this.
     
  2. Do you love him, if yes then why not if its what he wants? A well fitted chastity device will not harm him but will help him focus his energy on you. Finally do you know how often masturbates, if not you should ask him as that may help you decide.

    Rita
     
  3. richard
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    I have to ask why are you asking this on a male chastity forum. The answers on here will obviously be do it.
     
  4. go for it & see how it goes -works for you both.i think youll like it more than he. talk,talk 7 more talking to each other.take the plunge.
     
  5. I know it isn't nice to answer a question with a question, but why should you deny him his wish if it's easy work for you, it wouldn't restrict your (sex)life and you might even enjoy it ?
     
  6. That has to be one of the funniest statements I've read on a male chastity forum... "it's weird" [​IMG]
    After picking myself up off the floor from laughing...

    Just because he wants it isn't a good enough reason, You have to want it and understand it for yourself.
    My goodness, this site is FULL of information, read and do some homework.
    When I first started out, my hardest decision was which device to purchase. Also be aware that emotions play a strong part
    when starting out on this journey but don't let that put you off. Just communicate with each other.

    If you do decide to lock him up, enjoy the ride.. scuse the pun... and be prepared to take control.
    Personally, I wouldn't have it any other way. I adore chastity .

    MissM
     
  7. So far i fully agree with what MissM wrote. I only would like to remark that this not just a "male chastity" forum ... there is quite a number of members (in chastity) who hardly can and some who don't want to be counted as a male [​IMG].

    maid katrin

     
  8. slip of the keyboard maid katrin [​IMG] no offence ever intended My darlings.

    MissM
     
  9. Dear MissM,

    no worries Ma'am, i just wanted to make sure that we are not going to be forgotten [​IMG] ... after all, the term has been used by a male first and You know, males can be so claiming and they sometimes need a little reminder [​IMG]

    *curtsey*

    maid katrin
     
  10. forgotten? oh never.. looks to My maid..now go and clean My skirting boards , yeps, she is definitely not forgotten says I flexing My cane [​IMG]

    MissM
     
  11. It seemes like this is going to be a nice and stinging afternoon for Your maid ... LOL

    *curtsey*

    maid katrin
     
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    So why are you on this website at all? But I say: what do you want for yourself? If ithis masturbating means he's not performing to your satisfaction, the balls are in your court. If you're OK, that's fine too.
     
  13. Funny how all the other posts from this user indicate it's a 20 yr. old male who seems to think that a chastity device will make him sterile. I have to wonder if this really is "the girlfriend".