My pet and I have been playing for sometime with chastity. I admit that I am the one who has puts the halt to it on more than one occasion. I've had a hard time not letting my vanilla life get in the way. We both work, have kids and all that comes with being a married couple. I have a hard time turning the wife off and turn the goddess on. Don't get me wrong, I love being in control of my pet but sometimes I just don't feel like being his goddess, I just want to be his wife. Right now, I'm not in the mood and this is driving him nuts. So he's not locked up at the moment. I'm wondering if I should leave him locked up even if I'm not in the mood. What do you ladies think? Leave him locked up during me off days/weeks?