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Have you had issues or potential damage that causes you to post this?

 

Have you seen an urologist? The impotence may or may not be related to your time in chastity. It could simply be a coincidental occurrence and not a causal one. A urologist might resolve your issue whatever the cause.

 

Okay, I do think there are non-drug alternatives but like most things, it may or may not work for you. good luck.

 

Correlation does not imply causation. You are using a post hoc fallacy in your reasoning.

 

How old are you? More than 50% of men over the age of 50 have unreliable erections. Viagra is a godsend, no big deal to take it.

 

You are certainly not a picture of health if you experienced lasting impotence after being locked up.

I spent eight months continuously locked with only hygiene breaks to clean. No erections, no orgasms. After being let out it only took a few hours for everything to come back to normal. And I got my wife pregnant that night.

You almost certainly have some other condition going on. A 30% reduction in erectile size sounds very much like a hormonal deficiency in my opinion. That’s right in line with what transgender women experience during the first month or so of HRT when their testosterone is falling.

There are other things like heart conditions or blood pressure problems that can cause this kind of problem. So can SSRIs and other medications. I know there’s a member on here who experienced impotence from allergy medication containing pseudoephedrine.

I would see a doctor pronto and get to the root cause. When was your last physical? If it’s been more than six months and you are having this sudden problem, I would ask your physician to schedule a complete physical with blood panels and the works. Your erectile dysfunction might be telling you something very important and you might catch something early.

 

And let’s not exclude another big factor, psychological reasons can cause erectile dysfunction, it might not be anything physical. Stress, anxiety etc can cause this.

 

I’m in my early 30s and went down this path with my wife to the point that she forces me to wear the cage 24/7... I’ve lost that battle

The one thing that makes it worth it is the orgasms... when I’m released... that’s the ultimate high in my entire life of doing drugs... the orgasms I get now

 

Interestingly, your insistence that your physical issues can *only* have been caused by your device is the flip side of others saying it could be something else.

I'm not going to say one way or the other. It's quite possible that there was some combination of your cage and your personal biology that resulted in something happening.

There's nothing in your post history suggesting that this has been an issue in the past. However there *is* a lot of emotional turmoil in your writing, including some degree of ambivalence on the part of your wife, and some relationship issues.

A lot of the guys here have been wearing devices on and off for years, and some even decades. Reports such as yours are actually the exception.

Go see a doctor.

 

I agree with other posters here, you need to consult a professional about your problem.

 

It doesn't matter if you think my response is lame. You used a post hoc fallacy in your initial explanation of your reasoning, so that reasoning is invalid.

And now you have used another logical fallacy, a Holmesian fallacy:

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Holmesian_fallacy

Just because you can't think of anything else that could of caused it doesn't mean that the cage caused it. You're not a medical professional, you don't know what other causes it could be. And in addition to that, not all medical issues can be tied to a single event like you are attempting to do. Some medical issues arise on their own with the cause being hidden.

Stop being irrational. Go see a doctor.

 

I can not offer a M.D., but maybe the german Version of a Pharm.D. is worth something to you.

My advice: Go see a doctor in real live !

I realize that this is no option most people would do with kink related problems, but when there might be tests needed there is not much of an option. You could ask at certain platforms like fetlife where is a section for verified profesionals who might give you some theories. But there is nothing they could do to proof it without examining you.

Vanilla doctor might bring their own problems though. For one part you have to be true with what you think the cause or they might look into a completely wrong direction for no real cause - on the other hand many vanilla doctors don't have much love for kinksters so that you could not necessarily be sure that they will gibe the best they could. Take psychologists f.e. - most of them like like kinksters almost as much as people with BPD ("borderliners").

Urologists might not be much better as they often have to clean up the mess kinksters create inserting catheters or others things without knowing how to do it right...Finding the right one they would be your best choice though.

If you are looking for shots into the dark instead:
Have had your cage in somewhat uncomfortable positions for some time (resulting in pessure at the upper side of your penis) ? That might cause damage to the dorsal nerve - an alternative reason apart from bloodflow or psychological issues....

*Edith asks what kind of device you were using ?*

 

was you locked up by somebody or did you lock up yourself cos if it was somebody then you shud ask them bout it all.

 

Just a thought here:
Since you are reluctant to see a doctor and are of the belief that months of not having an erection might be the causal agent, how about buying one of those vacuum cylinders and using it to fully erect your penis.
Not meaning to tempt anyone to accuse me of employing any of the many fallacies to determine the cause of this phallic diminutive was, I believe that if the turtle pressure has not been adequate to overcome complete perfusion of the sponge-like tissues on its own, pulling a slight vacuum would increase the differential blood pressure and thereby expand your penis to its full potential.
After observing the results you can still go to a doctor.
Best of luck with this problem.
Please do keep us updated on your status.
Ss

 

I certainly wonder the same thing. But so far not .

 

Hard to give give sizing advise on such a basis, but what are you really alking about ? The tube or the gap ?
To me most of the stability comes from the a-ring resulting from a correctly a-ring + gap the tupe itself is not unimportant, but does not help much regarding stability - at least that's my impression.
Btw. what problems did you have wih your device ? What I found it read only like kin irritations an that alone would not point so some reason für more serious problems.

Speaking about testosteone that could be a reason and one easy to prove: get your blood tested.
If it is somewhat low there are several things you can do without directly substituting it:
No cb again as it can lower bloodflow in your testicles and therefor reduce testosterone production even more.
Make sure you get enough magnesium and zink as it is needed to produce testosterone.
pine pollen tincture as substitutant - even if your body can only use a fraction of the "testosterone" in it...
In adittion maybe panax and / or tienchi ginseng...

All this will not nesessarily work if your testosterone level already is ok, but those things can help to normalize your testosteronelevel if it is too low...

 

On the contrary, I think if you could guarantee similar results with a chastity device, you'd have scores of dudes from the forum beating down your door for a shrinking penis.

Take a supplement called L-Arginine. 2,000 mg per day, and you'll be much better than new within 2 weeks. It's a safe over the counter supplement you can get at any retailer and you'll be amazed at your erections.

My endocrinologist had me pick some up when I had side effects from my BP meds. She told me it was safe to take forever if I wanted as it has a ton of positive effects on vascularity and cognitive function.

 

Qualified from firsthand experience. But please understand I am not trying to a jerk. I am genuinely concerned about your sudden onset and lasting duration of impotence. That is not a normal experience in the use of chastity devices.

 

Man someone's salty. Being intentionally inflammatory isn't going to make your dick harder. Worse, putting doubts into the minds of people who aren't so experienced simply because you had one bad experience that you associate with kink, despite no one else sharing that experience, is kinda lame. If you cared, you would go see a doctor instead of trying to tarnish a pleasurable experience for others.

 

No advice here. Just a comment from experience. I have been locked almost 24/7 for the past 15 1/2 months. The longest continuous was 88 days. Never a problem and I am 70 years old. I use Viagra to help maintain an erection but I get them without it.

Both my general practitioner doctor and the therapist I see know about it and have never made any comments about possible problems form chastity.