We have been in a formal FLR for about a dozen years. It is a consensual relationship that was born out of my needing to be a better spouse and acknowledging that while I am an alpha male at work, I really needed to be able to drop the pretense and be her loving servant. We have experimented with many aspects of female domination including long term chastity, feminization, golden nectar, artificial periods, discipline (can you say nettles?). We have another couple we get together with. The woman is a FedEx driver and has been in my Queen’s book club for at least 15 years. Until a few years ago, neither one knew of their husband’s status in an FLR. We had an experience that I wrote about where we got together and Joe (completely fictional name) and his mistress Sally (also made-up name) came over for a BBQ. Joe and I were completely feminized and were required to make out while giving each other a hand job. I won because he came first. The details are in a post somewhere on here. Last week, my Queen announced that Sally wanted a rematch, but instead of jerking each other off, it would be a blow-job challenge. I believe that I shared that this is a consensual relationship so I called a time out. I’ve only called a time out twice before. During a time out, we revert to equals so we can discuss an issue. This was a hard stop for me. The point of this post is not to share what happened when we got together, but to ask my fellow submissives and chastity slaves if they have ever called a hard stop to the proceedings, and what happened next in your relationship? FYI, our relationship is stronger because we respect each other’s hard limits.